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July 28, 2008
Is California the Deciding Battle in the "Culture Wars?"
That's what American Family Association Don Wildmon says.
From Religion Dispatches:
The “culture wars” will be irrevocably lost, said Wildmon, if Proposition 8 (the “California Marriage Protection Act“ which states that “Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California”) loses on November 4.
“If we lose California, if they defeat the marriage amendment, I’m afraid that the culture war is over and Christians have lost,” said Wildmon, “I’ve never said that publicly until now—but that’s just the reality of the fact.”
Wildmon pointed out that If the “homosexuals” were “able to defeat the marriage amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman, then the culture war is over and we’ve lost—and gradually, secularism will replace Christianity as the foundation of our society.”
“California is a big dam, holding back the flood—and if you take down the dam in California, it’s going to flood 49 other states,” Wildmon maintained. “It will destroy marriage as it has been known for thousands of years [For an opposing view from a historian of the family see Stephanie Coontz's "Traditional" Marriage or a Break with Tradition?—ed.], and with that the cultural decline that normally would follow.”
Of course, he's not the only right-winger using their standard fall-back methodology--fear mongering.
“Homosexual rights are trampling freedom of religion, of speech and of association,” Michael J. McManus, President and Co-Chair of “Marriage Savers,“ recently wrote. “Homosexuals have a right to live any way they wish, but they do not have the right to redefine marriage for the whole culture.”
"What is at stake in the California marriage debate now taking place?” asked Maggie Gallagher, president of the National Organization for Marriage, which helped qualify Proposition 8 for the ballot, in a recent piece for the National Review. “The meaning of marriage, the idea of judicial restraint, and the official harassment and repression (by our own government) of traditional religious faiths.” (Gallagher, a long-time marriage advocate, also received money—without disclosing it—from the Department of Health and Human Services to help promote the President’s “Healthy Marriages Initiative“.)
Of course, what is at stake is one of the largest states in the nation taking a stand and granting equal rights to ALL people and not hiding behind tradition to perpetuate discrimination.
That apparently just scares the living crap out of some people. What a shame for them.
Click here to read the rest of the article from Religion Dispatches.
From Religion Dispatches:
The “culture wars” will be irrevocably lost, said Wildmon, if Proposition 8 (the “California Marriage Protection Act“ which states that “Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California”) loses on November 4.
“If we lose California, if they defeat the marriage amendment, I’m afraid that the culture war is over and Christians have lost,” said Wildmon, “I’ve never said that publicly until now—but that’s just the reality of the fact.”
Wildmon pointed out that If the “homosexuals” were “able to defeat the marriage amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman, then the culture war is over and we’ve lost—and gradually, secularism will replace Christianity as the foundation of our society.”
“California is a big dam, holding back the flood—and if you take down the dam in California, it’s going to flood 49 other states,” Wildmon maintained. “It will destroy marriage as it has been known for thousands of years [For an opposing view from a historian of the family see Stephanie Coontz's "Traditional" Marriage or a Break with Tradition?—ed.], and with that the cultural decline that normally would follow.”
Of course, he's not the only right-winger using their standard fall-back methodology--fear mongering.
“Homosexual rights are trampling freedom of religion, of speech and of association,” Michael J. McManus, President and Co-Chair of “Marriage Savers,“ recently wrote. “Homosexuals have a right to live any way they wish, but they do not have the right to redefine marriage for the whole culture.”
"What is at stake in the California marriage debate now taking place?” asked Maggie Gallagher, president of the National Organization for Marriage, which helped qualify Proposition 8 for the ballot, in a recent piece for the National Review. “The meaning of marriage, the idea of judicial restraint, and the official harassment and repression (by our own government) of traditional religious faiths.” (Gallagher, a long-time marriage advocate, also received money—without disclosing it—from the Department of Health and Human Services to help promote the President’s “Healthy Marriages Initiative“.)
Of course, what is at stake is one of the largest states in the nation taking a stand and granting equal rights to ALL people and not hiding behind tradition to perpetuate discrimination.
That apparently just scares the living crap out of some people. What a shame for them.
Click here to read the rest of the article from Religion Dispatches.
July 27, 2008
"Do I Need Medicine of Prayers for Depression?"
Billy Graham answers that question for the Christian Post:
Q: My doctor says I need to get on some medicine for my depression but I'm afraid to do it. I have a friend who says I just need to pray and get close to God. How do I do that? I admit I need some kind of help. I don't understand what's been happening to me. - Mrs. B.T.
A: Depression can be very crippling, and I commend you for facing up to it and seeking help. Unfortunately, some people who experience depression feel guilty or ashamed, and as a result they refuse to admit they need help.
But they shouldn't feel this way; some of the Bible's greatest people (such as Job and Elijah) knew what it was to be depressed. In the midst of his suffering, Job cried out in despair, "Why did I not perish at birth, and die as I came from the womb?" (Job 3:11). But in time Job realized that God still loved him, and when he turned to God he found new strength and comfort.
And I pray this will be your experience as well. Perhaps you've never thought about God very much - but He made you, and He loves you. He loves you so much that He sent His Son into the world to give His life for you and make you part of His family forever. If you have never done so, ask Jesus Christ to come into your life today - and He will. No matter what happens to us, we can have hope when we know Christ.
At the same time, don't hesitate to seek medical help if you need it. Depression can be caused by many things, including chemical imbalances in our brains, and often the right medicine can correct these. God can use doctors and medicines to help us, and in fact they may be God's answer to our prayers.
Q: My doctor says I need to get on some medicine for my depression but I'm afraid to do it. I have a friend who says I just need to pray and get close to God. How do I do that? I admit I need some kind of help. I don't understand what's been happening to me. - Mrs. B.T.
A: Depression can be very crippling, and I commend you for facing up to it and seeking help. Unfortunately, some people who experience depression feel guilty or ashamed, and as a result they refuse to admit they need help.
But they shouldn't feel this way; some of the Bible's greatest people (such as Job and Elijah) knew what it was to be depressed. In the midst of his suffering, Job cried out in despair, "Why did I not perish at birth, and die as I came from the womb?" (Job 3:11). But in time Job realized that God still loved him, and when he turned to God he found new strength and comfort.
And I pray this will be your experience as well. Perhaps you've never thought about God very much - but He made you, and He loves you. He loves you so much that He sent His Son into the world to give His life for you and make you part of His family forever. If you have never done so, ask Jesus Christ to come into your life today - and He will. No matter what happens to us, we can have hope when we know Christ.
At the same time, don't hesitate to seek medical help if you need it. Depression can be caused by many things, including chemical imbalances in our brains, and often the right medicine can correct these. God can use doctors and medicines to help us, and in fact they may be God's answer to our prayers.
July 26, 2008
Bishop Robinson: "We Are Not Going Away"
A conservative Anglican bishop called for Bishop Gene Robinson to step down this past week. Bishop Robinson responsed to that in a way that put the issue of his ordination and service in perspective:
From the Christian Post:
"Those calling for my resignation seem to be under the impression that if Gene Robinson went away, that all would go back to being 'like it was,' whatever that was! Does ANYONE think that if I resigned, this issue would go away?!" New Hampshire Bishop Gene Robinson said Wednesday in his blog.
"We are not going away, as much as some would like us to," Robinson added, referring to gays and lesbians.
They SHOULDN'T go away! GLBT people have just as much right as anyone to a seat at the table of the Lord, and therefore should have equal opportunity to serve in a ministry capacity.
It's really a very simple issue, but never underestimate the power of organized religion to make things very complicated.
From the Christian Post:
"Those calling for my resignation seem to be under the impression that if Gene Robinson went away, that all would go back to being 'like it was,' whatever that was! Does ANYONE think that if I resigned, this issue would go away?!" New Hampshire Bishop Gene Robinson said Wednesday in his blog.
"We are not going away, as much as some would like us to," Robinson added, referring to gays and lesbians.
They SHOULDN'T go away! GLBT people have just as much right as anyone to a seat at the table of the Lord, and therefore should have equal opportunity to serve in a ministry capacity.
It's really a very simple issue, but never underestimate the power of organized religion to make things very complicated.
July 25, 2008
Link of the Day: Jesus Politics
http://jesuspolitics.typepad.com/jesus_politics/
My interest in Jesus goes back to when I was born in Brazil where my parents were Southern Baptist missionaries. Jesus Politics is a collection of readings from the Christian right to the Jesus left.
My interest in Jesus goes back to when I was born in Brazil where my parents were Southern Baptist missionaries. Jesus Politics is a collection of readings from the Christian right to the Jesus left.
Newsweek on the Lawrence King Murder
The cover story on this week's edition of Newsweek magazine was an investigation into the background regarding the murder of high school student Lawrence King back in February.
Click here to read the article.
Over at Box Turtle Bulletin, Timothy Kinkaid was very disappointed with the nature of the article and the writer, Ramin Setoodeh, who was assigned to it:
To Setoodeh, Larry was the primary source of disturbance on campus. He wore makeup and “thought nothing of chasing the boys around the school in [high heels], teetering as he ran.” He was “a troubled child who flaunted his sexuality and wielded it like a weapon”. “He went to school accessorized to the max” and would “sidle up to the popular boys’ table and say in a high-pitched voice, “Mind if I sit here?””
If there were any residents of Oxnard that didn’t view Larry as a prancing mincing menace intent on wreaking havoc on all around him, Setoodeh didn’t seem to find them. He found instead an attorney with a “gay panic” defense, a litigious adoptive father who resents the gay community for caring about Larry’s murder, and several teachers who objected to his effeminate ways.
In short, there’s very little in the Newsweek article that would not seem more at home on World Net Daily or a press release from the American Family Association.
Setoodeh may have let inexperience and limited input sway his judgment into writing a hit piece on the victim. He is, after all, an odd choice for an in depth article about social interactions in an elementary school. His prior articles appear to consist primarily of celebrity interviews and entertainment commentary.
But though Setoodeh had not written substantive work for Newsweek before this, it is not the first time that he has shown awkwardness around the subject of homosexuality.
I don’t know Ramin Setoodeh’s orientation or his personal tastes or biases. Nor do I know his reasons for writing an article that serves as little more than a press release for the defense on this murder case.
But whatever his motivations, it is clear to me that he was tragically under-qualified for the job and his lack of experience showed in his use of language and in his final product.
Unfortunately, I concur with Kincaid's take. While this article certainly doesn't condone the act of murder, in my opinion there was a strong element of "he asked for it" throughout the piece.
If Setoodeh had written that about a woman who had been raped and then killed, he'd probably be unemployed, and likely deservedly so.
Sadly, that approach still seems to be okay when the victim is gay, especially one who had the nerve to be flamboyant about it.
Click here to read the article.
Over at Box Turtle Bulletin, Timothy Kinkaid was very disappointed with the nature of the article and the writer, Ramin Setoodeh, who was assigned to it:
To Setoodeh, Larry was the primary source of disturbance on campus. He wore makeup and “thought nothing of chasing the boys around the school in [high heels], teetering as he ran.” He was “a troubled child who flaunted his sexuality and wielded it like a weapon”. “He went to school accessorized to the max” and would “sidle up to the popular boys’ table and say in a high-pitched voice, “Mind if I sit here?””
If there were any residents of Oxnard that didn’t view Larry as a prancing mincing menace intent on wreaking havoc on all around him, Setoodeh didn’t seem to find them. He found instead an attorney with a “gay panic” defense, a litigious adoptive father who resents the gay community for caring about Larry’s murder, and several teachers who objected to his effeminate ways.
In short, there’s very little in the Newsweek article that would not seem more at home on World Net Daily or a press release from the American Family Association.
Setoodeh may have let inexperience and limited input sway his judgment into writing a hit piece on the victim. He is, after all, an odd choice for an in depth article about social interactions in an elementary school. His prior articles appear to consist primarily of celebrity interviews and entertainment commentary.
But though Setoodeh had not written substantive work for Newsweek before this, it is not the first time that he has shown awkwardness around the subject of homosexuality.
I don’t know Ramin Setoodeh’s orientation or his personal tastes or biases. Nor do I know his reasons for writing an article that serves as little more than a press release for the defense on this murder case.
But whatever his motivations, it is clear to me that he was tragically under-qualified for the job and his lack of experience showed in his use of language and in his final product.
Unfortunately, I concur with Kincaid's take. While this article certainly doesn't condone the act of murder, in my opinion there was a strong element of "he asked for it" throughout the piece.
If Setoodeh had written that about a woman who had been raped and then killed, he'd probably be unemployed, and likely deservedly so.
Sadly, that approach still seems to be okay when the victim is gay, especially one who had the nerve to be flamboyant about it.
July 24, 2008
MySpace Friend of the Day: Give Love Give Life
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Give Love Give Life is an attitude focused on the health of women and children, about what we have in common – women and children. This is not about our differences – political, class, racial or religious. This is not about whether we are from the left or from the right. This is not about whose fault it is.
This is not about whose medicine is the best. This is not about our differences. We all have our differences. Give Love Give Life is about what we have in common. Too often in the chaos of the world we are in, there seems to be a programmed focus on our differences, and this focus on our differences is perpetually being emotionally manipulated to the point that we no longer remember what we have in common. We are human beings. It is time to think together and show responsibility to the women and children.
Give Love Give Life is an attitude focused on the health of women and children, about what we have in common – women and children. This is not about our differences – political, class, racial or religious. This is not about whether we are from the left or from the right. This is not about whose fault it is.
This is not about whose medicine is the best. This is not about our differences. We all have our differences. Give Love Give Life is about what we have in common. Too often in the chaos of the world we are in, there seems to be a programmed focus on our differences, and this focus on our differences is perpetually being emotionally manipulated to the point that we no longer remember what we have in common. We are human beings. It is time to think together and show responsibility to the women and children.
What About "The Will of the People" Now?
One of the most tiresome arguements against same-sex marriage and extension of other legal rights to GLBT people is that it goes against "the will of the people," as if rights for minorities should be determined by the will (or whim) of the majority.
So why aren't those same people speaking out in favor of ending the "don't ask, don't tell" policy in the U. S. military? That's just a rhetorical question, I know the answer--because it doesn't suit their biased, narrow-minded views. At least on this issue, it appears a majority of Americans have grown beyond that and embrace GLBT people's rights to serve and defend their nation.
From Pink News:
A new survey by the Washington Post and ABC News has found that three-quarters of Americans think that openly gay, lesbian and bisexual people should be allowed to serve in the military.
64% of Republicans and nearly two thirds of self-described conservatives backed a change in the current law, as did 57% of white evangelical Protestants and 82% of white Catholics.
It was Republican opposition that forced then-President Bill Clinton to abandon his pledge to allow gay people to serve and signed into law the compromise known as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Since 1993 gay people who do not reveal their sexuality can serve, and commanding officers are not meant to ask service personnel about their sexual orientation.
More than 12,000 gay men and women have been discharged under the current law, at an estimated cost of more than $363 million (£182.6m).
The new poll of 1,119 Americans, taken earlier this month, shows how support for gays in the military has steadily increased, from 44% in 1993 to 62% in 2001 to 75% today.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
So why aren't those same people speaking out in favor of ending the "don't ask, don't tell" policy in the U. S. military? That's just a rhetorical question, I know the answer--because it doesn't suit their biased, narrow-minded views. At least on this issue, it appears a majority of Americans have grown beyond that and embrace GLBT people's rights to serve and defend their nation.
From Pink News:
A new survey by the Washington Post and ABC News has found that three-quarters of Americans think that openly gay, lesbian and bisexual people should be allowed to serve in the military.
64% of Republicans and nearly two thirds of self-described conservatives backed a change in the current law, as did 57% of white evangelical Protestants and 82% of white Catholics.
It was Republican opposition that forced then-President Bill Clinton to abandon his pledge to allow gay people to serve and signed into law the compromise known as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Since 1993 gay people who do not reveal their sexuality can serve, and commanding officers are not meant to ask service personnel about their sexual orientation.
More than 12,000 gay men and women have been discharged under the current law, at an estimated cost of more than $363 million (£182.6m).
The new poll of 1,119 Americans, taken earlier this month, shows how support for gays in the military has steadily increased, from 44% in 1993 to 62% in 2001 to 75% today.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
July 23, 2008
Link of the Day: International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission
http://www.iglhrc.org/site/iglhrc/section.php?id=23
The mission of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) is to secure the full enjoyment of the human rights of all people and communities subject to discrimination or abuse on the basis of sexual orientation or expression, gender identity or expression, and/or HIV status. A US-based non-profit, non-governmental organization (NGO), IGLHRC effects this mission through advocacy, documentation, coalition building, public education, and technical assistance.
The mission of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) is to secure the full enjoyment of the human rights of all people and communities subject to discrimination or abuse on the basis of sexual orientation or expression, gender identity or expression, and/or HIV status. A US-based non-profit, non-governmental organization (NGO), IGLHRC effects this mission through advocacy, documentation, coalition building, public education, and technical assistance.
"Christian Beliefs" vs. Job responsibilities
From PinkNews UK:
Two leading gay Christian organisations have said that an employment tribunal victory for London registrar Lillian Ladele is "disappointing."
The tribunal ruled that Ms Ladele had been discriminated against by employer. Islington Council, because of her refusal to carry out civil partnerships for LGBT couples on the grounds of her orthodox Christian beliefs.
Ms Ledele originally swapped with colleagues to avoid performing gay and lesbian ceremonies after civil partnerships became legal in 2005.
After formal complaints were made against her, an internal disciplinary investigation began.
I respect Ms. Ledele's right to her beliefs, but to use them as an acceptable reason not to perform the required functions of her job is troubling and, I fear, a very slippery slope.
How far can this principle be taken? What religious beliefs are allowable to avoid execution of someone's job and what ones aren't? Who can truly make an objective decision like that without having their religious beliefs influencing it?
It seems clear to me--if your professed religious views prevent you from fully performing your job, it's time to find another job and allow someone with different beliefs, ones that comply with the law, performing that one.
Click here to read the entire report on Pink News.
Two leading gay Christian organisations have said that an employment tribunal victory for London registrar Lillian Ladele is "disappointing."
The tribunal ruled that Ms Ladele had been discriminated against by employer. Islington Council, because of her refusal to carry out civil partnerships for LGBT couples on the grounds of her orthodox Christian beliefs.
Ms Ledele originally swapped with colleagues to avoid performing gay and lesbian ceremonies after civil partnerships became legal in 2005.
After formal complaints were made against her, an internal disciplinary investigation began.
I respect Ms. Ledele's right to her beliefs, but to use them as an acceptable reason not to perform the required functions of her job is troubling and, I fear, a very slippery slope.
How far can this principle be taken? What religious beliefs are allowable to avoid execution of someone's job and what ones aren't? Who can truly make an objective decision like that without having their religious beliefs influencing it?
It seems clear to me--if your professed religious views prevent you from fully performing your job, it's time to find another job and allow someone with different beliefs, ones that comply with the law, performing that one.
Click here to read the entire report on Pink News.
July 22, 2008
MySpace Friend of the Day: Lifelong AIDS Alliance
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Lifelong AIDS Alliance is committed to preventing the spread of HIV, and to providing practical support services and advocating for those whose lives are affected by HIV and AIDS. We are the largest AIDS service organization in the Pacific Northwest, serving more than 3,000 people living with HIV/AIDS in Seattle/King County. Visit www.llaa.org for more information about Lifelong.
This organization is also involved in Seattle's AIDS Walk on October 4, 2008.
Lifelong AIDS Alliance is committed to preventing the spread of HIV, and to providing practical support services and advocating for those whose lives are affected by HIV and AIDS. We are the largest AIDS service organization in the Pacific Northwest, serving more than 3,000 people living with HIV/AIDS in Seattle/King County. Visit www.llaa.org for more information about Lifelong.
This organization is also involved in Seattle's AIDS Walk on October 4, 2008.
Praise Report from BCF 7/21/08
Greetings BCF Family & Friends,
What a joy and blessing it is to be the Apostolic Pastor of Believers Covenant Fellowship! I just want to take a moment to thank all of you for the ways you remembered my birthday yesterday and honored me with your love and gifts. I am especially touched by the poem that Ray wrote and Erica did such a beautiful work framing for me. Thank you all soooo very much! It is an awesome privilege that I take very serious to be your Apostle and your friend. God bless you!
And thanks to everyone around the country and world who sent e-cards or left voice mail messages! Such a myriad of diverse renditions of "Happy Birthday!" LOL!! I loved them all!
We had a wonderful service and a great time together yesterday, as always! The Holy Spirit was pressing us to move past blockages and hindrances to entering in to His presence. I know that the enemy has been working overtime to try to get the Church to be in offense, unforgiveness, and strife with others. The Lord reminded us of exactly WHO our enemy is, and it's not people! We are determined to obey the Lord our God, and live free of strife, especially within Father's House. You know, we each have GOT to make that determination and stick with it, don't we! Reconciling with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship is automatically restored to what it had been....we've learned that trust is earned, loyalty is built, love grows....over time and consistency of hearts. BUT we must keep our hearts clear of strife with others, for faith worketh by LOVE, and strife stops up our love walk!
Yesterday's worship was powerful in leading us to make those decisive steps....and the blessing of His presence flowed! We love the Lord sooo much, He is always soooo good to us.
It's also exciting to tell you that we received 7 new members into covenant with us yesterday! We have 5 more to take in next week, and a blessing to bestow upon Brother Rick and Brother Tim as they move to Puerto Rico to start "Barefoot Church on the Beach" ministry! This is exciting, and we want to support their labors and efforts for the King. Brother Rick will be speaking to us about reaching the Harvest; We must be good stewards of God's Harvest and bring it in!
So don't miss next Sunday service!
After service, the congregation surprised me with a beautiful buffet lunch which we all indulged in! The Peanut Butter Cake was totally the bomb!!! I had the last piece for breakfast this morning! :-) (I know, diet, diet, diet....but it's my birthday!) Thank you for all the love and effort each of you put in to making the day special. Just seeing how much you all love and care about one another makes it wonderful.
Don't forget Friday night Movie Nights at BCF, 6:30 and 9 PM showings. And this coming Thursday is very special as we witness Brother Ray and Sister Wanda Green's recommitment ceremony! They are celebrating their 7th Anniversary, and want to have their BCF family and myself to lead them in recommitting their lives to one another! Another awesome testimony of how the Holy Spirit is leading and directing our lives in His righteousness.
Have a wonderful week, we are praying for each of you, please continue to hold us up as well.
Shalom-nothing missing, nothing broken!
In Christ's love and faithful friendship,
Ap Dale
What a joy and blessing it is to be the Apostolic Pastor of Believers Covenant Fellowship! I just want to take a moment to thank all of you for the ways you remembered my birthday yesterday and honored me with your love and gifts. I am especially touched by the poem that Ray wrote and Erica did such a beautiful work framing for me. Thank you all soooo very much! It is an awesome privilege that I take very serious to be your Apostle and your friend. God bless you!
And thanks to everyone around the country and world who sent e-cards or left voice mail messages! Such a myriad of diverse renditions of "Happy Birthday!" LOL!! I loved them all!
We had a wonderful service and a great time together yesterday, as always! The Holy Spirit was pressing us to move past blockages and hindrances to entering in to His presence. I know that the enemy has been working overtime to try to get the Church to be in offense, unforgiveness, and strife with others. The Lord reminded us of exactly WHO our enemy is, and it's not people! We are determined to obey the Lord our God, and live free of strife, especially within Father's House. You know, we each have GOT to make that determination and stick with it, don't we! Reconciling with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship is automatically restored to what it had been....we've learned that trust is earned, loyalty is built, love grows....over time and consistency of hearts. BUT we must keep our hearts clear of strife with others, for faith worketh by LOVE, and strife stops up our love walk!
Yesterday's worship was powerful in leading us to make those decisive steps....and the blessing of His presence flowed! We love the Lord sooo much, He is always soooo good to us.
It's also exciting to tell you that we received 7 new members into covenant with us yesterday! We have 5 more to take in next week, and a blessing to bestow upon Brother Rick and Brother Tim as they move to Puerto Rico to start "Barefoot Church on the Beach" ministry! This is exciting, and we want to support their labors and efforts for the King. Brother Rick will be speaking to us about reaching the Harvest; We must be good stewards of God's Harvest and bring it in!
So don't miss next Sunday service!
After service, the congregation surprised me with a beautiful buffet lunch which we all indulged in! The Peanut Butter Cake was totally the bomb!!! I had the last piece for breakfast this morning! :-) (I know, diet, diet, diet....but it's my birthday!) Thank you for all the love and effort each of you put in to making the day special. Just seeing how much you all love and care about one another makes it wonderful.
Don't forget Friday night Movie Nights at BCF, 6:30 and 9 PM showings. And this coming Thursday is very special as we witness Brother Ray and Sister Wanda Green's recommitment ceremony! They are celebrating their 7th Anniversary, and want to have their BCF family and myself to lead them in recommitting their lives to one another! Another awesome testimony of how the Holy Spirit is leading and directing our lives in His righteousness.
Have a wonderful week, we are praying for each of you, please continue to hold us up as well.
Shalom-nothing missing, nothing broken!
In Christ's love and faithful friendship,
Ap Dale
July 21, 2008
Link of the Day: Religion and Gays
http://www.religionandgays.org/
A Non-Sectarian, Non-Partisan Service of the Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus
Religion is the genesis of the controversy, both the beginning and the framework in which the intense debate is waged .
What one believes religion teaches about homosexuality is often the partition that divides those who support gay rights and those who do not. People of strong faith are on both sides.
By providing links to a wide variety of websites it is our hope we might increase the knowledge and improve the understanding we have for each other. While other faiths are included, there is an emphasis on Christianity because in the USA thatis the religion that drives the discussion .
A Non-Sectarian, Non-Partisan Service of the Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus
Religion is the genesis of the controversy, both the beginning and the framework in which the intense debate is waged .
What one believes religion teaches about homosexuality is often the partition that divides those who support gay rights and those who do not. People of strong faith are on both sides.
By providing links to a wide variety of websites it is our hope we might increase the knowledge and improve the understanding we have for each other. While other faiths are included, there is an emphasis on Christianity because in the USA thatis the religion that drives the discussion .
Civil Union vs. Gay Marriage... one person's perspective.
Got this from our friends at Bella Online. For the entire article, go to:
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art56284.asp/zzz
Civil Union verses Gay Marriage
"Is there really a difference when it comes to civil unions and gay marriage? What is in a simple word? Is there really a case that one is better over the other? Why should it really matter if we get the rights we want in the end? I will tell you why it matters.A Gay Marriage is essentially MARRIAGE! There is no way to get around the meaning of the word. A marriage is a marriage is a marriage is a marriage. Plain and simple, and to the point. You have all the rights and responsibilities of any other married person. However, you will not be recognized by the Federal Government because of DOMA of course. Maybe someday, but not now! You also have to remember you can only get married in Massachusetts. Lonely life there in good ole Mass!
A Civil Union is not a Marriage. It is like comparing apples to oranges or salt to sugar. It is like oil and water; they do not mix and cannot be used interchangeably. What is it really? Simply enough a civil union is a simple contract recognized by the state (if your state has it) that gives you the “feel” of being married. In that state, and that state alone, unless of course your state also recognizes out-of-state issued civil unions, you will have the “honor” and “privilege” of being in an almost “marriage”. You will be responsible for each other. You can file joint state taxes. You can have children together and be responsible for them if your union is dissolved. You can go in your partner’s room and make medical decisions for them if they are incapacitated. An almost marriage, but not a “real” marriage..."
I can see their point. I, personally, would be willing to accept civil unions because I know that there are still a LOT of straights (and gays for that matter) in this country who are very uncomfortable with gay marriage, but don't have any issue with us having civil unions. Is it fair? No! However, it is more than what I have now. Call that settling. Call it giving in. I call it a step in the right direction.
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art56284.asp/zzz
Civil Union verses Gay Marriage
"Is there really a difference when it comes to civil unions and gay marriage? What is in a simple word? Is there really a case that one is better over the other? Why should it really matter if we get the rights we want in the end? I will tell you why it matters.A Gay Marriage is essentially MARRIAGE! There is no way to get around the meaning of the word. A marriage is a marriage is a marriage is a marriage. Plain and simple, and to the point. You have all the rights and responsibilities of any other married person. However, you will not be recognized by the Federal Government because of DOMA of course. Maybe someday, but not now! You also have to remember you can only get married in Massachusetts. Lonely life there in good ole Mass!
A Civil Union is not a Marriage. It is like comparing apples to oranges or salt to sugar. It is like oil and water; they do not mix and cannot be used interchangeably. What is it really? Simply enough a civil union is a simple contract recognized by the state (if your state has it) that gives you the “feel” of being married. In that state, and that state alone, unless of course your state also recognizes out-of-state issued civil unions, you will have the “honor” and “privilege” of being in an almost “marriage”. You will be responsible for each other. You can file joint state taxes. You can have children together and be responsible for them if your union is dissolved. You can go in your partner’s room and make medical decisions for them if they are incapacitated. An almost marriage, but not a “real” marriage..."
I can see their point. I, personally, would be willing to accept civil unions because I know that there are still a LOT of straights (and gays for that matter) in this country who are very uncomfortable with gay marriage, but don't have any issue with us having civil unions. Is it fair? No! However, it is more than what I have now. Call that settling. Call it giving in. I call it a step in the right direction.
July 20, 2008
A Different Look
I hope you like the new format for this blog. After a little over three years, I thought it was time to redecorate, and blue has always been my favorite color.
I've also added "My Blog List" which will provide news updates from some of the sites I use as primary sources for my posting. As I move into a full-fledged pastoral role at my church, I probably won't have time to comment on as many current events as I have been, but I want to make sure this blog continues to be a valuable resource for anyone interested in the GLBT community and faith so I including news items right from the source.
Next week, I'll also be adding a new feature, "Affirming Church of the Day," which will rotate with the "MySpace Friend of the Day" and "Link of the Day" features I recently added. I'll be featuring affirming church websites that are rich with sermons and other valuable information.
Thanks for your continued interest, support, and prayers. I am praying for you.
Jim
I've also added "My Blog List" which will provide news updates from some of the sites I use as primary sources for my posting. As I move into a full-fledged pastoral role at my church, I probably won't have time to comment on as many current events as I have been, but I want to make sure this blog continues to be a valuable resource for anyone interested in the GLBT community and faith so I including news items right from the source.
Next week, I'll also be adding a new feature, "Affirming Church of the Day," which will rotate with the "MySpace Friend of the Day" and "Link of the Day" features I recently added. I'll be featuring affirming church websites that are rich with sermons and other valuable information.
Thanks for your continued interest, support, and prayers. I am praying for you.
Jim
July 19, 2008
Stewardship Is About Trust
This is the sermon I preached last Sunday at BCF. I appreciate the kind words Apostle Dale had to say about it in the praise report and I'm happy to share it with you. When I prepared this sermon, I was really struck by just how much God trusts us and wants us to trust Him back.
July 18, 2008
Praise Report from BCF
When I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God, whose Word I praise,In God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can mortal man do to me? Psalm 56:3-4
Greetings BCF Family & Friends!
It’s with great joy that I am writing to you today. We have just had another awesome Sunday of worship, teaching, ministry and fellowship, and the Lord is blessing us in soooo many ways.
First, our pastor in training, Jim Johnson, preached a terrific sermon in our “Stewardship Month” series. He pointed out something that I hadn’t quite thought about, that God TRUSTS US!! God trusts us to be good stewards of His creation, His Church, His people, and all that He has blessed us personally with to steward. I hadn’t thought of it that way, but it added a new dimension to how our ATTITUDE should be about the earth, the ministry, the people of God, the HARVEST, we are actually taking care of God’s property! What an awesome responsibility.
We were then blessed by the testimony of Brother Ray Green. He, his spouse Wanda, and Brother Ken Mifflin shared how the Lord put it upon their hearts to go into downtown DC and minister to the needy. With only $10, they testified how the Lord showed them to divide two sub sandwiches, along with some bottled water, and were able to feed and minister to 8 people! That may seem small to you, but it’s really quite significant!! They confirmed for the second time, the Will and Direction the Holy Spirit is calling BCF to go in the Hebrew New Year and Fall Season. Get ready BCF, we’re going OUT to bring IN the Harvest of the Lord! Our congregation was so moved by their testimony, that they started pulling out their wallets and handing me money, saying, “Here Apostle, let’s do this again and again!” I opened up the altar and before we knew it, we had received over $400 towards our Helping Hands and Evangelism Ministries! Praise the Lord! Thank you Ray, Wanda and Ken for your obedience and faithfulness! The Spirit has spoken and moved upon all our hearts through your obedience!!
We are a blessed congregation and we are GROWING! I’m thrilled to announce that we will be receiving 10 new members into Covenant Relationship with us the next two Sundays. And our congregational meeting was a blessing when we learned that not only are we meeting our weekly/monthly budget, but we are currently running a $5,000 surplus! The Lord is releasing the increase of provision in our midst!
Also, we are blessed to tell you that BCF will soon be Apostolically planting a new church/ministry in Puerto Rico ! Brother Rick and Brother Tim will be moving there within the month, and we are going to cover them and bless them to start the “Church on the Beach” Ministry! We’ll be going there in January to help support them and lay hands on them! Praise God!
I am reminded that the Holy Spirit has been calling us to enter into His rest and TRUST Him, He will always provide and He has promised to bless the righteous. One of Brother Jim’s scriptures yesterday reminds us what the Lord Jesus said:
“Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.” John 15:4,5
Let’s all continue to PRESS IN to the Lord and TRUST Him; Remember to stay under cover and in step with the Spirit and the anointed leadership of His Church; Don't get ahead of God, wait upon the Lord, trust in Him- He is faithful and will always make a way for us.
Please continue to remember us in your prayers. This is an exciting time in our lives and in this ministry. KNOW that we, too, are praying for each of you and our network of churches.
Shalom, we love you with the Love of the Lord!
Yahweh bless You and make His face to shine on you!
Ap Dale
Greetings BCF Family & Friends!
It’s with great joy that I am writing to you today. We have just had another awesome Sunday of worship, teaching, ministry and fellowship, and the Lord is blessing us in soooo many ways.
First, our pastor in training, Jim Johnson, preached a terrific sermon in our “Stewardship Month” series. He pointed out something that I hadn’t quite thought about, that God TRUSTS US!! God trusts us to be good stewards of His creation, His Church, His people, and all that He has blessed us personally with to steward. I hadn’t thought of it that way, but it added a new dimension to how our ATTITUDE should be about the earth, the ministry, the people of God, the HARVEST, we are actually taking care of God’s property! What an awesome responsibility.
We were then blessed by the testimony of Brother Ray Green. He, his spouse Wanda, and Brother Ken Mifflin shared how the Lord put it upon their hearts to go into downtown DC and minister to the needy. With only $10, they testified how the Lord showed them to divide two sub sandwiches, along with some bottled water, and were able to feed and minister to 8 people! That may seem small to you, but it’s really quite significant!! They confirmed for the second time, the Will and Direction the Holy Spirit is calling BCF to go in the Hebrew New Year and Fall Season. Get ready BCF, we’re going OUT to bring IN the Harvest of the Lord! Our congregation was so moved by their testimony, that they started pulling out their wallets and handing me money, saying, “Here Apostle, let’s do this again and again!” I opened up the altar and before we knew it, we had received over $400 towards our Helping Hands and Evangelism Ministries! Praise the Lord! Thank you Ray, Wanda and Ken for your obedience and faithfulness! The Spirit has spoken and moved upon all our hearts through your obedience!!
We are a blessed congregation and we are GROWING! I’m thrilled to announce that we will be receiving 10 new members into Covenant Relationship with us the next two Sundays. And our congregational meeting was a blessing when we learned that not only are we meeting our weekly/monthly budget, but we are currently running a $5,000 surplus! The Lord is releasing the increase of provision in our midst!
Also, we are blessed to tell you that BCF will soon be Apostolically planting a new church/ministry in Puerto Rico ! Brother Rick and Brother Tim will be moving there within the month, and we are going to cover them and bless them to start the “Church on the Beach” Ministry! We’ll be going there in January to help support them and lay hands on them! Praise God!
I am reminded that the Holy Spirit has been calling us to enter into His rest and TRUST Him, He will always provide and He has promised to bless the righteous. One of Brother Jim’s scriptures yesterday reminds us what the Lord Jesus said:
“Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.” John 15:4,5
Let’s all continue to PRESS IN to the Lord and TRUST Him; Remember to stay under cover and in step with the Spirit and the anointed leadership of His Church; Don't get ahead of God, wait upon the Lord, trust in Him- He is faithful and will always make a way for us.
Please continue to remember us in your prayers. This is an exciting time in our lives and in this ministry. KNOW that we, too, are praying for each of you and our network of churches.
Shalom, we love you with the Love of the Lord!
Yahweh bless You and make His face to shine on you!
Ap Dale
MySpace Friend of the Day: Nebraska Pride
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=70751416&MyToken=8055b767-70f2-49a9-ba47-b9cd01afab8c
Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, straight, moms, dads, grandmas, grandpas, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, friends, employed, unemployed, black, white, latina/o... there are no boundaries of who we are, meaning NO ONE IS EXCLUDED!
Rainbow Celebrations is a community-wide, volunteer nonprofit Nebraska corporation, and the official home of the annual Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Nebraska Pride Parade & Festival and the annual National Coming Out Day Celebration. Formed in 2002, Rainbow Celebrations seeks to advance educational and social activities for the GLBT communities of Nebraska and western Iowa.
Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride believe's in an open and committed community, however neither Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride has found certain forms of commercial advertising being offered by myspace users as questionable. Therefore, we will not authorize or approve any such member that appears to be solely for commercial gain or in questionable commercial commerce.
Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, straight, moms, dads, grandmas, grandpas, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, friends, employed, unemployed, black, white, latina/o... there are no boundaries of who we are, meaning NO ONE IS EXCLUDED!
Rainbow Celebrations is a community-wide, volunteer nonprofit Nebraska corporation, and the official home of the annual Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Nebraska Pride Parade & Festival and the annual National Coming Out Day Celebration. Formed in 2002, Rainbow Celebrations seeks to advance educational and social activities for the GLBT communities of Nebraska and western Iowa.
Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride believe's in an open and committed community, however neither Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride has found certain forms of commercial advertising being offered by myspace users as questionable. Therefore, we will not authorize or approve any such member that appears to be solely for commercial gain or in questionable commercial commerce.
July 17, 2008
Ex-Gay Leader Says Gays Are In Heaven!
I saw this article from Ex-Gay Watch and about fell over. Here's an excerpt. For the entire article, go to:
http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2008/07/exodus-president-alan-chambers-gay-people-live-in-heaven/
"The Asheville, NC Citizen-Times ran an article Monday on Exodus International’s annual conference, which started yesterday in neighboring Ridgecrest.
The article profiles Exodus and its activities, as well as Equality Asheville, which is offering counter programming with the message “you’re okay the way you are.”Both sides are given equal time, with quotes from Exodus leaders presented alongside statements by Wayne Besen and several members of Equality Asheville.
For the most part, it’s business as usual. What stands out is a rather surprising comment by Alan Chambers:“The truth is that homosexuality does not send people to hell. Gay people live in heaven. It’s not about fire and brimstone, it’s about an alternative option,” Chambers said.While
Exodus and its allies have for some time avoided directly stating that “gay-identified” Christians will end up in hell, this is nonetheless an extraordinary statement coming from the head of an organization founded on the premise that homosexuality and Christianity are completely incompatible..."
What? I'm going to heaven after all? What a concept! This article says to me that the mainline Church is really starting to understand that they have got to watch what they say about glbt people.
In the past, we were fodder for whatever fundraising campaign they were running and they seemed to feel they could spout all kinds of foul accusations about us. They didn't bat an eyelash.
However, I'm seeing a small shift. I think a lot of young people and family and friends of gays and lesbians are starting to say they don't appreciate that kind of thing. Maybe they go to their pastor and tell them how they feel. Maybe they just share it with friends. Whatever the case, it seems that our family and friends are starting to rise up and I for one appreciate it!
Call me hopelessly optimistic, but I'm excited that the leader of one of the biggest ex-gay organizations has said that glbt Christians are no less Christians because of our sexual orientation. It's a step in the right direction.
http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2008/07/exodus-president-alan-chambers-gay-people-live-in-heaven/
"The Asheville, NC Citizen-Times ran an article Monday on Exodus International’s annual conference, which started yesterday in neighboring Ridgecrest.
The article profiles Exodus and its activities, as well as Equality Asheville, which is offering counter programming with the message “you’re okay the way you are.”Both sides are given equal time, with quotes from Exodus leaders presented alongside statements by Wayne Besen and several members of Equality Asheville.
For the most part, it’s business as usual. What stands out is a rather surprising comment by Alan Chambers:“The truth is that homosexuality does not send people to hell. Gay people live in heaven. It’s not about fire and brimstone, it’s about an alternative option,” Chambers said.While
Exodus and its allies have for some time avoided directly stating that “gay-identified” Christians will end up in hell, this is nonetheless an extraordinary statement coming from the head of an organization founded on the premise that homosexuality and Christianity are completely incompatible..."
What? I'm going to heaven after all? What a concept! This article says to me that the mainline Church is really starting to understand that they have got to watch what they say about glbt people.
In the past, we were fodder for whatever fundraising campaign they were running and they seemed to feel they could spout all kinds of foul accusations about us. They didn't bat an eyelash.
However, I'm seeing a small shift. I think a lot of young people and family and friends of gays and lesbians are starting to say they don't appreciate that kind of thing. Maybe they go to their pastor and tell them how they feel. Maybe they just share it with friends. Whatever the case, it seems that our family and friends are starting to rise up and I for one appreciate it!
Call me hopelessly optimistic, but I'm excited that the leader of one of the biggest ex-gay organizations has said that glbt Christians are no less Christians because of our sexual orientation. It's a step in the right direction.
Link of the Day: Sojurners
http://www.sojo.net/index.cfm
Our mission is to articulate the biblical call to social justice, inspiring hope and building a movement to transform individuals, communities, the church, and the world.
In response to this call, we offer a vision for faith in public life by:
o publishing Sojourners magazine, SojoMail and other resources that address issues of faith, politics, and culture from a biblical perspective;
o preaching, teaching, organizing, and public witness;
o nurturing community by bringing together people from the various traditions and streams of the church;
o hosting an annual program of voluntary service for education, ministry, and discipleship.
In our lives and in our work, we seek to be guided by the biblical principles of justice, mercy, and humility.
Our mission is to articulate the biblical call to social justice, inspiring hope and building a movement to transform individuals, communities, the church, and the world.
In response to this call, we offer a vision for faith in public life by:
o publishing Sojourners magazine, SojoMail and other resources that address issues of faith, politics, and culture from a biblical perspective;
o preaching, teaching, organizing, and public witness;
o nurturing community by bringing together people from the various traditions and streams of the church;
o hosting an annual program of voluntary service for education, ministry, and discipleship.
In our lives and in our work, we seek to be guided by the biblical principles of justice, mercy, and humility.
July 16, 2008
MySpace Friend of the Day: Mountain of Love Ministries
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=180713312&MyToken=168f06f5-df43-43b5-ad66-dd3d1305a724
Fountain of Love Ministries is designed to show all people the love of Jesus.We believe in I Cor. 13 "and the greatest of these is love". How can we say we love Jesus who we have never seen and not love our brothers and sisters.
We will strive to be instrumental in mending the hearts of those that have been hurt, broken, rejected, down-trotten, and cast aside.
For there is a fountain filled with the love of God that will flow from heart to heart.
Fountain of Love Ministries is based in Ft Lauderdale Florida.
Fountain of Love Ministries is designed to show all people the love of Jesus.We believe in I Cor. 13 "and the greatest of these is love". How can we say we love Jesus who we have never seen and not love our brothers and sisters.
We will strive to be instrumental in mending the hearts of those that have been hurt, broken, rejected, down-trotten, and cast aside.
For there is a fountain filled with the love of God that will flow from heart to heart.
Fountain of Love Ministries is based in Ft Lauderdale Florida.
July 15, 2008
Let's Give McDonalds Some Love
I'll admit it, I love McDonalds. Meals there are a major part of my life. Nothing to brag about, mind you, but I share that in the interest of full disclosure regarding this post.
You see, our buddies at the American Family Association have their knickers in a twist because McDonalds has the nerve to contribute to the Gay Chamber of Commerce. The AFA strongly defends the free-market system, unless a company does something its leaders don't like. This is one of those instances, so they have played the old, worn out, boycott card.
Here's an excerpt from an essay about it from 365Gay.com:
The AFA’s big beef with McDonald’s is that the company donated to the gay chamber of commerce. Surf over to the AFA Web site and you’ll read that the group is concerned “about McDonald’s, as a corporation, refusing to remain neutral in the culture wars,” the AFA states. “McDonald’s has chosen not to remain neutral but to give the full weight of their corporation to promoting the homosexual agenda, including homosexual marriage.”In short, the AFA is not loving it.
But I’m loving it.
I’m loving this curious development that an iconic American company is standing firm against the oh-so un-American American Family Association, which at every right turn stands against justice and equality.
I’m loving that McDonald’s USA spokesman Bill Whitman defended the restaurant’s policy in the Washington Post proclaiming, “Hatred has no place in our culture. That includes McDonald’s, and we stand by and support our people to live and work in a society free of discrimination and harassment.”
Out of respect for this honorable approach, I'll try really hard not to get upset the next time one of their stores screws up my order.
Click here to read the rest of the 365Gay.com article.
You see, our buddies at the American Family Association have their knickers in a twist because McDonalds has the nerve to contribute to the Gay Chamber of Commerce. The AFA strongly defends the free-market system, unless a company does something its leaders don't like. This is one of those instances, so they have played the old, worn out, boycott card.
Here's an excerpt from an essay about it from 365Gay.com:
The AFA’s big beef with McDonald’s is that the company donated to the gay chamber of commerce. Surf over to the AFA Web site and you’ll read that the group is concerned “about McDonald’s, as a corporation, refusing to remain neutral in the culture wars,” the AFA states. “McDonald’s has chosen not to remain neutral but to give the full weight of their corporation to promoting the homosexual agenda, including homosexual marriage.”In short, the AFA is not loving it.
But I’m loving it.
I’m loving this curious development that an iconic American company is standing firm against the oh-so un-American American Family Association, which at every right turn stands against justice and equality.
I’m loving that McDonald’s USA spokesman Bill Whitman defended the restaurant’s policy in the Washington Post proclaiming, “Hatred has no place in our culture. That includes McDonald’s, and we stand by and support our people to live and work in a society free of discrimination and harassment.”
Out of respect for this honorable approach, I'll try really hard not to get upset the next time one of their stores screws up my order.
Click here to read the rest of the 365Gay.com article.
Link of the Day: 42
http://42.blogs.warnock.me.uk/
This is a blog written by Dave Warnock, a Methodist minister in the U. K. He writes on experiences at his church, but also covers computer and web topics and cycling, a passion of his.
Recently, there has been a lot of discussion on this blog about the revival in Lakeland, Florida led by evangelist Todd Bentley as people still continue to have two minds about what, if anything, the Holy Spirit is doing down there.
There are plenty of interesting topics on this blog and worth checking out.
This is a blog written by Dave Warnock, a Methodist minister in the U. K. He writes on experiences at his church, but also covers computer and web topics and cycling, a passion of his.
Recently, there has been a lot of discussion on this blog about the revival in Lakeland, Florida led by evangelist Todd Bentley as people still continue to have two minds about what, if anything, the Holy Spirit is doing down there.
There are plenty of interesting topics on this blog and worth checking out.
July 14, 2008
Archbishop of Wales Willing to Consecrate a Gay Bishop
From the BBC (hat tip to PageOneQ)
Barry Morgan spoke as the world's first openly gay bishop, whose ordination has caused a split in the Anglican church, is to preach at a church in London.
Bishop of New Hampshire Gene Robinson has been excluded from the Lambeth Conference of church leaders.
Dr Morgan said the consecration of a gay bishop would no problem to him, although it might be for his church, and he would "alert" fellow leaders.
He said: "If I thought that a person who had been nominated was an excellent candidate in every other way and that he was in a faithful relationship - for me personally that would not present a problem.
"But of course it might present a problem for my church and I would have to alert the electoral college to that," Dr Morgan added.
Bishop Robinson has been excluded from the Lambeth Conference, held every 10 years, but will be in Canterbury at the same time.
He is due to speak at St Mary's Church in Putney, west London, on Sunday.
Anglican conservatives set up a splinter movement earlier this month, in rejection of the acceptance of gay bishops.
Members of the Global Anglican Future Conference movement established the Fellowship of Confessing Anglicans.
Bishop Robinson publicly announced his sexuality in the 1980s and has since been in a 20-year relationship with his current partner.
Barry Morgan spoke as the world's first openly gay bishop, whose ordination has caused a split in the Anglican church, is to preach at a church in London.
Bishop of New Hampshire Gene Robinson has been excluded from the Lambeth Conference of church leaders.
Dr Morgan said the consecration of a gay bishop would no problem to him, although it might be for his church, and he would "alert" fellow leaders.
He said: "If I thought that a person who had been nominated was an excellent candidate in every other way and that he was in a faithful relationship - for me personally that would not present a problem.
"But of course it might present a problem for my church and I would have to alert the electoral college to that," Dr Morgan added.
Bishop Robinson has been excluded from the Lambeth Conference, held every 10 years, but will be in Canterbury at the same time.
He is due to speak at St Mary's Church in Putney, west London, on Sunday.
Anglican conservatives set up a splinter movement earlier this month, in rejection of the acceptance of gay bishops.
Members of the Global Anglican Future Conference movement established the Fellowship of Confessing Anglicans.
Bishop Robinson publicly announced his sexuality in the 1980s and has since been in a 20-year relationship with his current partner.
MySpace Friend of the Day: A Rainbow Place
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=272414552&MyToken=168f06f5-df43-43b5-ad66-dd3d1305a724
A Rainbow Place is dedicated to the unity, self awareness, respect, dignity, and health of the diverse gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, HIV positive and questioning community.
Our community and counseling center is primarily a safe haven and supportive space where GLBTQI people and our allies can come together in a safe and casual atmosphere. Above all else, our concern is for the health and well-being of the Reno (NV) metro LGBTQ population.
A Rainbow Place is dedicated to the unity, self awareness, respect, dignity, and health of the diverse gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, HIV positive and questioning community.
Our community and counseling center is primarily a safe haven and supportive space where GLBTQI people and our allies can come together in a safe and casual atmosphere. Above all else, our concern is for the health and well-being of the Reno (NV) metro LGBTQ population.
July 13, 2008
Whosoever Magazine on Freedom
The theme of the latest issue of Whosoever Magazine, an online magazine for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender christians, is freedom.
Editor Candace Chellew-Hodge writes about "The Paradox of Freedom."
Rev. Suzie Chamness contributes "Where the Spirit of the Lord is, There is Liberty."
John H. Campbell writes about a "Reason for Celebration."
Rev. Dr. Jerry S. Maneker contributes "Gay Bashing, the Politics of Religion."
I recommend that you check out these and the other articles in this month's issue.
Editor Candace Chellew-Hodge writes about "The Paradox of Freedom."
Rev. Suzie Chamness contributes "Where the Spirit of the Lord is, There is Liberty."
John H. Campbell writes about a "Reason for Celebration."
Rev. Dr. Jerry S. Maneker contributes "Gay Bashing, the Politics of Religion."
I recommend that you check out these and the other articles in this month's issue.
July 11, 2008
Wayne Besen on "The 'Pro-Family' Scam"
It's one thing to call out a group as hypocrites. It's another to support it with facts. In his most recent column, Wayne Besen does both as he skewers the "Pro-Family" (read: anti-gay) lobby:
The last few weeks have shown that so-called pro-family organizations are some of the most useless, money-sucking scams in the world. With real families suffering from economic hardship in America, a declining birthrate in Europe and Google doubling the price of daycare for employees, the only thing right wing family groups want to discuss is their bizarre and all-encompassing fagela fetish.
Recently, The Brooklyn Paper, had a huge headline, "SPLITSVILLE: Brooklyn divorces up 30%." The article cited a number of reasons including, "when the economy tanks, so do many marriages."
One would think this would alarm so-called pro-family organizations and they would be out in force repairing marriages -- or at least looking for economic solutions to take the stress off couples. Unfortunately, as I walked around my Brooklyn neighborhood, I saw not one representative from the American Family Association.
Well, I take that back. I did encounter one of the group's representatives on CNN Headline News as we debated a Heinz mayonnaise ad in the United Kingdom that featured two men kissing. I'm sure the children of these broken marriages in Brooklyn will feel much better knowing Heinz pulled the ad and they can have gay-free mayonnaise at both mommy and daddy's separate houses.
A new study by the Center for Labor Market Studies at Northeastern University showed that in 2006, for the first time in U.S. history, a majority of births to women under 30 -- 50.4 percent -- were out of wedlock. New York Times columnist Bob Herbert points out that, "By comparison, when John F. Kennedy was elected president in 1960, just 6 percent of all births were to unmarried women under 30.
One imagines that this report might have startled "pro-family" organizations and they would have put their millions of dollars towards stopping this trend. No such luck. Instead, they are investing huge piles of money and manpower to pass anti-gay marriage amendments in Florida, Arizona and California. The upshot for "pro-family" groups is that if heterosexuals keep screwing up marriage, by the time gay people finally win the right nationally, we won't want to use it.
If a landlord was spending all of his time and money in court protecting his building from destruction while it fell into disrepair and threatened to fall down on its own, I think most rational people would realize how foolish that approach would be.
Instead of fighting to keep GLBT people out of the institution of marriage, perhaps these anti-gay groups should instead focus their efforts on repairing the part that is already legal.
Click here to read the rest of Wayne Besen's column.
The last few weeks have shown that so-called pro-family organizations are some of the most useless, money-sucking scams in the world. With real families suffering from economic hardship in America, a declining birthrate in Europe and Google doubling the price of daycare for employees, the only thing right wing family groups want to discuss is their bizarre and all-encompassing fagela fetish.
Recently, The Brooklyn Paper, had a huge headline, "SPLITSVILLE: Brooklyn divorces up 30%." The article cited a number of reasons including, "when the economy tanks, so do many marriages."
One would think this would alarm so-called pro-family organizations and they would be out in force repairing marriages -- or at least looking for economic solutions to take the stress off couples. Unfortunately, as I walked around my Brooklyn neighborhood, I saw not one representative from the American Family Association.
Well, I take that back. I did encounter one of the group's representatives on CNN Headline News as we debated a Heinz mayonnaise ad in the United Kingdom that featured two men kissing. I'm sure the children of these broken marriages in Brooklyn will feel much better knowing Heinz pulled the ad and they can have gay-free mayonnaise at both mommy and daddy's separate houses.
A new study by the Center for Labor Market Studies at Northeastern University showed that in 2006, for the first time in U.S. history, a majority of births to women under 30 -- 50.4 percent -- were out of wedlock. New York Times columnist Bob Herbert points out that, "By comparison, when John F. Kennedy was elected president in 1960, just 6 percent of all births were to unmarried women under 30.
One imagines that this report might have startled "pro-family" organizations and they would have put their millions of dollars towards stopping this trend. No such luck. Instead, they are investing huge piles of money and manpower to pass anti-gay marriage amendments in Florida, Arizona and California. The upshot for "pro-family" groups is that if heterosexuals keep screwing up marriage, by the time gay people finally win the right nationally, we won't want to use it.
If a landlord was spending all of his time and money in court protecting his building from destruction while it fell into disrepair and threatened to fall down on its own, I think most rational people would realize how foolish that approach would be.
Instead of fighting to keep GLBT people out of the institution of marriage, perhaps these anti-gay groups should instead focus their efforts on repairing the part that is already legal.
Click here to read the rest of Wayne Besen's column.
Link of the Day: GPAC-Gender Public Advocacy Coalition
http://www.gpac.org/
The Gender Public Advocacy Coalition works to ensure that classrooms, communities, and workplaces are safe for everyone to learn, grow, and succeed - whether or not they meet expectations for masculinity and femininity.
As a human rights organization, GenderPAC also promotes an understanding of the connection between discrimination based on gender stereotypes and sex, sexual orientation, age, race, and class.
The Gender Public Advocacy Coalition works to ensure that classrooms, communities, and workplaces are safe for everyone to learn, grow, and succeed - whether or not they meet expectations for masculinity and femininity.
As a human rights organization, GenderPAC also promotes an understanding of the connection between discrimination based on gender stereotypes and sex, sexual orientation, age, race, and class.
July 10, 2008
MySpace Friend of the Day: Heart of Hope LGBT-Friendly Worship
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=369856103&MyToken=34b7cd83-97a8-4e1e-907e-d7d05eb4421c
Formerly MCC of the Hudson Valley, this ministry meets in downtown Albany, NY
Heart of Hope embraces the diversity of God's creationby celebrating our unity in Christ. We value a religious fellowship that is open to all, regardless of age, race, ethnicity, sex, class, physical ability, socioeconomic status, family status, HIV status, sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. Friends, partners, families, and those wishing to explore their own spiritual journeys are always welcome.
Formerly MCC of the Hudson Valley, this ministry meets in downtown Albany, NY
Heart of Hope embraces the diversity of God's creationby celebrating our unity in Christ. We value a religious fellowship that is open to all, regardless of age, race, ethnicity, sex, class, physical ability, socioeconomic status, family status, HIV status, sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. Friends, partners, families, and those wishing to explore their own spiritual journeys are always welcome.
Calling for a Truce in the Culture War
From the Washington Post's "On Faith" section:
Dear Senators McCain and Obama:
For our entire lives, America has been polarized by an angry culture war over such divisive issues as abortion and gay rights. It has been a fight marked by sincere passion and principles on the one hand, but also by stridency, vituperation, and lack of respect for the opposing sides’ motives and beliefs on the other.
We write to you from two traditionally warring camps, one evangelical and one progressive, joined in one voice and one vision, to offer an olive branch to end the culture wars. This olive branch is not a surrender, but a new approach that allows each of you to maintain your core principles, just as we have maintained ours, and heal a nation that is tired of the fight. This approach is based on common ground and common values.
In the 35-year fight since Roe v. Wade, it seems there are few common values to be found between our opposing sides. But it turns out that nearly all of us agree on the common value that we should reduce the need for abortions in America.
Supporting that common value is the common ground of dramatically reducing the number of unintended pregnancies in this country that lead to abortions. It means together supporting sex education programs that include accurate information about contraception and the importance of abstinence so that fewer unintended pregnancies occur. It means together supporting programs that teach parents how to communicate better with their children about values and programs that give low-income women greater access to contraception. It means that together we can agree that abortion should never be the only option and that young and poor pregnant women should receive support when they feel they need it to carry their pregnancy to term. The truth is that the most effective way to reduce the prevalence of abortions in America is to actually work together rather than to fight.
Gay and lesbian issues, like abortion, have also been tearing the nation apart. Here again, the differences are real and rooted in theological and philosophical differences. But on these issues too we can find a shared common value and shared path forward. That shared value is human dignity. We can all agree that all human beings are created in God’s image and have and deserve an innate human dignity - even those with whom one differs or disagrees. We can all agree that honoring this human dignity is a high moral and religious calling. And we can agree that any laws we create to expand rights must not abridge the religious liberty of religious communities. Common ground means, for example, that, apart from religious institutions, the workplace should judge you at work for the job you do and nothing more. That would be a careful step along America’s journey to fulfill its national ideals, and also to honor our highest moral and religious beliefs.
Senators McCain and Obama, each of you are running as a different kind of candidate, seeking to bring the nation together rather than to split us apart. Each of you has great potential to model a new type of leadership. Each of you has the power to heal the country and carve a new path forward through our shared common values.
We humbly submit our joint prayer that you, Senators McCain and Obama, help bring a just end to the culture wars.
With great respect,
David Gushee, Ph.D., Distinguished Professor of Christian Ethics, Mercer University.
Rachel Laser, Culture Program Director, Third Way.
Unfortunately, the comments posted show how unlikely that is to be driven by the general population. It will take strong leadership at the highest levels of our nation to change that paradigm. I hope Barack Obama can at least nudge us in a more civil direction.
Dear Senators McCain and Obama:
For our entire lives, America has been polarized by an angry culture war over such divisive issues as abortion and gay rights. It has been a fight marked by sincere passion and principles on the one hand, but also by stridency, vituperation, and lack of respect for the opposing sides’ motives and beliefs on the other.
We write to you from two traditionally warring camps, one evangelical and one progressive, joined in one voice and one vision, to offer an olive branch to end the culture wars. This olive branch is not a surrender, but a new approach that allows each of you to maintain your core principles, just as we have maintained ours, and heal a nation that is tired of the fight. This approach is based on common ground and common values.
In the 35-year fight since Roe v. Wade, it seems there are few common values to be found between our opposing sides. But it turns out that nearly all of us agree on the common value that we should reduce the need for abortions in America.
Supporting that common value is the common ground of dramatically reducing the number of unintended pregnancies in this country that lead to abortions. It means together supporting sex education programs that include accurate information about contraception and the importance of abstinence so that fewer unintended pregnancies occur. It means together supporting programs that teach parents how to communicate better with their children about values and programs that give low-income women greater access to contraception. It means that together we can agree that abortion should never be the only option and that young and poor pregnant women should receive support when they feel they need it to carry their pregnancy to term. The truth is that the most effective way to reduce the prevalence of abortions in America is to actually work together rather than to fight.
Gay and lesbian issues, like abortion, have also been tearing the nation apart. Here again, the differences are real and rooted in theological and philosophical differences. But on these issues too we can find a shared common value and shared path forward. That shared value is human dignity. We can all agree that all human beings are created in God’s image and have and deserve an innate human dignity - even those with whom one differs or disagrees. We can all agree that honoring this human dignity is a high moral and religious calling. And we can agree that any laws we create to expand rights must not abridge the religious liberty of religious communities. Common ground means, for example, that, apart from religious institutions, the workplace should judge you at work for the job you do and nothing more. That would be a careful step along America’s journey to fulfill its national ideals, and also to honor our highest moral and religious beliefs.
Senators McCain and Obama, each of you are running as a different kind of candidate, seeking to bring the nation together rather than to split us apart. Each of you has great potential to model a new type of leadership. Each of you has the power to heal the country and carve a new path forward through our shared common values.
We humbly submit our joint prayer that you, Senators McCain and Obama, help bring a just end to the culture wars.
With great respect,
David Gushee, Ph.D., Distinguished Professor of Christian Ethics, Mercer University.
Rachel Laser, Culture Program Director, Third Way.
Unfortunately, the comments posted show how unlikely that is to be driven by the general population. It will take strong leadership at the highest levels of our nation to change that paradigm. I hope Barack Obama can at least nudge us in a more civil direction.
July 09, 2008
Link of the Day: Gay Bible Christians
http://www.gaybiblechristians.org/
Our continued word for our Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender visitors and members:
Remember always that you are loved by God [John 3:16], JUST as you are, JUST as He created you to be [Psalm 139:13-16] -- and anyone who says differently is trying to put themselves between you and God [Luke 11:46; Acts 15:5-11; Titus 1:10-11] (and you KNOW whose agenda THAT is! [Matthew 16:23; Mark 4:15]). REJECT false teachings and REMOVE yourself from those who witness falsely against Queer or any other people [Matthew 7:15-29; Galatians 5:1-8; 1 John 4:1] and take care of the Queer people around you who need to see the love of Jesus in your face, in your hands, in your words [John 13:34-35]!
Don't let bad Christians keep you from a good God!
Our continued word for our Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender visitors and members:
Remember always that you are loved by God [John 3:16], JUST as you are, JUST as He created you to be [Psalm 139:13-16] -- and anyone who says differently is trying to put themselves between you and God [Luke 11:46; Acts 15:5-11; Titus 1:10-11] (and you KNOW whose agenda THAT is! [Matthew 16:23; Mark 4:15]). REJECT false teachings and REMOVE yourself from those who witness falsely against Queer or any other people [Matthew 7:15-29; Galatians 5:1-8; 1 John 4:1] and take care of the Queer people around you who need to see the love of Jesus in your face, in your hands, in your words [John 13:34-35]!
Don't let bad Christians keep you from a good God!
Hijacked By Conservatives?
That headline could be appropriate for some major religious denominations in the United States, but the story I'm linking to here is about the Church of England (the Anglicans, the mother church of American Episcopals):
From The Independent (London). Thanks to PageOneQ for the link.
The Church of England had a pretty embarrassing start. For despite the fact that the Pope dubbed him the Defender of the Faith, Henry VIII's libido proved stronger than his commitment to Rome – so he slipstreamed the Reformation in order to warm his bed with a younger, prettier wife. So far, so shoddy. Yet, over time, what was cobbled together proved far greater than such ignominious beginnings might suggest. For the special genius of the Church of England was that it embraced a huge diversity of theological opinion. The idea was that we might be united by common worship rather than divided by doctrinaire argument. So why now, after hundreds of years, does this settlement seem under threat as never before?
The Church of England is fundamentally a theological peace treaty. As the Reformation plunged continental Europe into an ideological bloodbath, with Catholics and Protestants murdering each other by the million, England created a church that made the most remarkable claim for itself: both Catholic and Protestant. Sick of religious warfare, it invented the original big tent philosophy. Those of widely different philosophies could kneel together and worship God through the appropriately named Book of Common Prayer.
It was a pragmatic arrangement that came to shape our national character. The English didn't do doctrinal dispute, we frowned on the public exploration of ideological differences characteristic of those hot-headed Continentals. Instead, we agreed to differ and muddled along. We became the world's natural compromisers.
The conservatives have decided that they can exploit the deep homophobia of many African Christians in order to stage a coup for the soul of the church. Suddenly, we are once again fighting the unresolved battles of the Reformation, with narrow-minded puritans seeking to impose their joyless and claustrophobic world-view on the rest of the church. The newly formed Federation of Confessing Anglicans (Foca) is seeking bridgeheads in wealthy evangelical parishes and the English ecclesiological peace treaty lies in tatters. All eyes now turn to Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury. Is there anything he can do about these Focas?
A traditionally inclusive church like the C of E is especially vulnerable to infiltration by extremists. For the whole point of being inclusive is that all are welcome. It's a natural openness that is currently being exploited by those who have no love in their heart for the very inclusivity that allows them in in the first place. Even more so than the Labour Party in the 1970s, the English church is vulnerable to entryism. If fundamentalist Christianity were allowed to take over the Church of England, it would gain unprecedented access to national government through its role as the established church. The prospect of a state church, determined to convert Muslims, should set off huge flashing red lights in every corridor of power. In America, the separation of church and state creates a firewall between fundamentalist religion and state power. We have no such protection.
While that firewall is not nearly as sturdy as it used to be, the thought of it not being there at all is downright scary.
Click here to read the rest of the column.
From The Independent (London). Thanks to PageOneQ for the link.
The Church of England had a pretty embarrassing start. For despite the fact that the Pope dubbed him the Defender of the Faith, Henry VIII's libido proved stronger than his commitment to Rome – so he slipstreamed the Reformation in order to warm his bed with a younger, prettier wife. So far, so shoddy. Yet, over time, what was cobbled together proved far greater than such ignominious beginnings might suggest. For the special genius of the Church of England was that it embraced a huge diversity of theological opinion. The idea was that we might be united by common worship rather than divided by doctrinaire argument. So why now, after hundreds of years, does this settlement seem under threat as never before?
The Church of England is fundamentally a theological peace treaty. As the Reformation plunged continental Europe into an ideological bloodbath, with Catholics and Protestants murdering each other by the million, England created a church that made the most remarkable claim for itself: both Catholic and Protestant. Sick of religious warfare, it invented the original big tent philosophy. Those of widely different philosophies could kneel together and worship God through the appropriately named Book of Common Prayer.
It was a pragmatic arrangement that came to shape our national character. The English didn't do doctrinal dispute, we frowned on the public exploration of ideological differences characteristic of those hot-headed Continentals. Instead, we agreed to differ and muddled along. We became the world's natural compromisers.
The conservatives have decided that they can exploit the deep homophobia of many African Christians in order to stage a coup for the soul of the church. Suddenly, we are once again fighting the unresolved battles of the Reformation, with narrow-minded puritans seeking to impose their joyless and claustrophobic world-view on the rest of the church. The newly formed Federation of Confessing Anglicans (Foca) is seeking bridgeheads in wealthy evangelical parishes and the English ecclesiological peace treaty lies in tatters. All eyes now turn to Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury. Is there anything he can do about these Focas?
A traditionally inclusive church like the C of E is especially vulnerable to infiltration by extremists. For the whole point of being inclusive is that all are welcome. It's a natural openness that is currently being exploited by those who have no love in their heart for the very inclusivity that allows them in in the first place. Even more so than the Labour Party in the 1970s, the English church is vulnerable to entryism. If fundamentalist Christianity were allowed to take over the Church of England, it would gain unprecedented access to national government through its role as the established church. The prospect of a state church, determined to convert Muslims, should set off huge flashing red lights in every corridor of power. In America, the separation of church and state creates a firewall between fundamentalist religion and state power. We have no such protection.
While that firewall is not nearly as sturdy as it used to be, the thought of it not being there at all is downright scary.
Click here to read the rest of the column.
July 08, 2008
Right-Wing Coalition Issues "Declaration of American Values"
This 10-point document looks like a typical right-wing (perhaps even far-right) political platform, but to have it attributed to "evangelical leaders" sickens me and gives yet another black eye to evangelicals in general.
Click here for the complete verbage. Here's a summary:
o Help the poor and prevent abortion
o No same-sex marriage
o Freedom of parents to do essentially whatever they see fit in raising their kids
o Freedom for their religion in any and all public venues
o Minimal interference from government regarding issues pertaining to the environment and consumption of natural resources
o Buy guns
o Reign in authority of judges
o Keep military strong, deal with other nations from strength
o No increase in taxes for the rich
While there is a token mention of the poor in the first point, this seems to me as little more than the utterings from a group that believes they have all the answers and don't want any interference while they shape this nation in their image.
You know, like all the stuff Jesus DIDN'T DO during his ministry on Earth. Of course, this type of mentality aims higher than the example of the Son of God.
How twisted and self-absorbed is that?
Click here for the complete verbage. Here's a summary:
o Help the poor and prevent abortion
o No same-sex marriage
o Freedom of parents to do essentially whatever they see fit in raising their kids
o Freedom for their religion in any and all public venues
o Minimal interference from government regarding issues pertaining to the environment and consumption of natural resources
o Buy guns
o Reign in authority of judges
o Keep military strong, deal with other nations from strength
o No increase in taxes for the rich
While there is a token mention of the poor in the first point, this seems to me as little more than the utterings from a group that believes they have all the answers and don't want any interference while they shape this nation in their image.
You know, like all the stuff Jesus DIDN'T DO during his ministry on Earth. Of course, this type of mentality aims higher than the example of the Son of God.
How twisted and self-absorbed is that?
MySpace Friend of the Day: Keep A Breast (boobies!)
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=8634961
The Keep A Breast Foundation, is a 501 (c) (3) non-profit organization.Our mission is to help eradicate breast cancer by exposing young people to methods of prevention, early detection and support. Through art events, educational programs, and fundraising efforts, we seek to increase breast cancer awareness among young people so they are better equipped to make choices and develop habits that will benefit their long-term health and well-being.
Brenda survived a bout with breast cancer last year and, thanks to very early detection, did not require either radiation or chemotherapy. As usually happens when something like that becomes personal, we are big supporters of anyone working to eradicate this deadly disease. If they can do it with a light heart, that's even better--after all, what straight guy doesn't want to fight for boobies?
The Keep A Breast Foundation, is a 501 (c) (3) non-profit organization.Our mission is to help eradicate breast cancer by exposing young people to methods of prevention, early detection and support. Through art events, educational programs, and fundraising efforts, we seek to increase breast cancer awareness among young people so they are better equipped to make choices and develop habits that will benefit their long-term health and well-being.
Brenda survived a bout with breast cancer last year and, thanks to very early detection, did not require either radiation or chemotherapy. As usually happens when something like that becomes personal, we are big supporters of anyone working to eradicate this deadly disease. If they can do it with a light heart, that's even better--after all, what straight guy doesn't want to fight for boobies?
Climb Up So Kids Can Grow Up
Last week, the American Foundation for Children for AIDS was a "Link of the Day" here. Tanya Weaver, the Executive Director of the organization, contacted me and asked if I would mention their upcoming event, and I am happy to do so.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS (AFCA) and the American Alpine Institute are teaming up again to host Climb Up So Kids Can Grow Up. The global climb-a-thon will increase awareness of the pediatric AIDS pandemic and raise funds for life-saving anti-retroviral (ARV) medication, food, and medical and humanitarian supplies to children affected by HIV/AIDS in Sub-Saharan Africa.
Hikers, cyclists, climbers, and runners of all ages and skill levels around the globe will participate in Climb Up So Kids Can Grow Up on September 20 and/or 21, 2008. Participants can climb, hike, run or cycle up the structure of their choice, anywhere in the world.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS (AFCA) is a not-for-profit foundation providing medical supplies and aid to children in countries hardest hit by HIV/AIDS including Kenya, Uganda and Zimbabwe. The sub-Saharan region of Africa is the worst affected by the pediatric AIDS pandemic with more than two million children under the age of 15 living with HIV.
Last year’s climb-a-thon was AFCA’s first and raised over $15,000. “Our goal is to at least double that this year,” said Tanya Weaver, AFCA’s Executive Director. “This year the need is even greater because of the crisis in Kenya, which has made it even more difficult to get medicine and supplies to the children.
“Everyone can ensure that hundreds of children live longer, healthier lives simply by organizing a team wherever you are and climbing up, whether by cycling, running, hiking, or climbing. The important thing is to get the nation and the world moving to help these children.” Weaver noted that all contributions are tax-deductible.
Many leading outdoor and other companies support Climb Up So Kids Can Grow including National Geographic Adventure Magazine, Women’s Adventure Magazine, Skyline Marketing, The River Inn, Chubasco, MadRock, Black Diamond, Petzl, LARABAR, CerconeBrownCurtis and KG Communications.
For more information on registering, forming a team or sponsorship, please go to ClimbUpSoKidsCanGrowUp.com.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS (AFCA) and the American Alpine Institute are teaming up again to host Climb Up So Kids Can Grow Up. The global climb-a-thon will increase awareness of the pediatric AIDS pandemic and raise funds for life-saving anti-retroviral (ARV) medication, food, and medical and humanitarian supplies to children affected by HIV/AIDS in Sub-Saharan Africa.
Hikers, cyclists, climbers, and runners of all ages and skill levels around the globe will participate in Climb Up So Kids Can Grow Up on September 20 and/or 21, 2008. Participants can climb, hike, run or cycle up the structure of their choice, anywhere in the world.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS (AFCA) is a not-for-profit foundation providing medical supplies and aid to children in countries hardest hit by HIV/AIDS including Kenya, Uganda and Zimbabwe. The sub-Saharan region of Africa is the worst affected by the pediatric AIDS pandemic with more than two million children under the age of 15 living with HIV.
Last year’s climb-a-thon was AFCA’s first and raised over $15,000. “Our goal is to at least double that this year,” said Tanya Weaver, AFCA’s Executive Director. “This year the need is even greater because of the crisis in Kenya, which has made it even more difficult to get medicine and supplies to the children.
“Everyone can ensure that hundreds of children live longer, healthier lives simply by organizing a team wherever you are and climbing up, whether by cycling, running, hiking, or climbing. The important thing is to get the nation and the world moving to help these children.” Weaver noted that all contributions are tax-deductible.
Many leading outdoor and other companies support Climb Up So Kids Can Grow including National Geographic Adventure Magazine, Women’s Adventure Magazine, Skyline Marketing, The River Inn, Chubasco, MadRock, Black Diamond, Petzl, LARABAR, CerconeBrownCurtis and KG Communications.
For more information on registering, forming a team or sponsorship, please go to ClimbUpSoKidsCanGrowUp.com.
July 07, 2008
Would You Get Married If It Meant You Could Go to Jail?
These guys are:
From The Capital Times (Madison, WI):
Every summer, Bob Klebba and David Waugh take a family beach vacation to San Diego. Besides fun and sun, this year's trip will have a little something extra: a wedding.
The two Madison men will be getting married at a San Diego courthouse in August. In May, the California Supreme Court ruled that barring same-sex couples from marriage is unconstitutional. Since June 17, same-sex couples have been getting married throughout California. Non-residents are allowed to marry there, too.
"What we might be looking for is outside recognition of our relationship -- recognition from society," Klebba said. "This is a way to ask for that recognition. Happily, California is willing to give us that."
Wisconsin, however, is not. Not only will Klebba's and Waugh's marriage not be recognized here, they could be taking a legal risk by entering into it. Wisconsin is a state that imposes criminal penalties on residents if they enter a marriage outside the state that would be prohibited in the state. The law was created to prohibit underage couples from crossing state lines to marry, but it could be interpreted to apply to same-sex marriages, according to Glenn Carlson of Fair Wisconsin, an advocacy group for gays and lesbians. In Wisconsin, the penalty is a fine of up to $10,000, nine months in prison, or both.
"It would be interesting to be prosecuted," Klebba said. "It would really bring up a reaction in the public sentiment."
That's not why Klebba and Waugh are getting married, however. They're doing it because of what it means to each other.
Click here to read the rest of this story.
From The Capital Times (Madison, WI):
Every summer, Bob Klebba and David Waugh take a family beach vacation to San Diego. Besides fun and sun, this year's trip will have a little something extra: a wedding.
The two Madison men will be getting married at a San Diego courthouse in August. In May, the California Supreme Court ruled that barring same-sex couples from marriage is unconstitutional. Since June 17, same-sex couples have been getting married throughout California. Non-residents are allowed to marry there, too.
"What we might be looking for is outside recognition of our relationship -- recognition from society," Klebba said. "This is a way to ask for that recognition. Happily, California is willing to give us that."
Wisconsin, however, is not. Not only will Klebba's and Waugh's marriage not be recognized here, they could be taking a legal risk by entering into it. Wisconsin is a state that imposes criminal penalties on residents if they enter a marriage outside the state that would be prohibited in the state. The law was created to prohibit underage couples from crossing state lines to marry, but it could be interpreted to apply to same-sex marriages, according to Glenn Carlson of Fair Wisconsin, an advocacy group for gays and lesbians. In Wisconsin, the penalty is a fine of up to $10,000, nine months in prison, or both.
"It would be interesting to be prosecuted," Klebba said. "It would really bring up a reaction in the public sentiment."
That's not why Klebba and Waugh are getting married, however. They're doing it because of what it means to each other.
Click here to read the rest of this story.
Link of the Day: Atticus Circle
http://www.atticuscircle.org/
It is time for us to stand up and stand with our gay and lesbian friends who are being systematically denied the most basic rights and recognition – the very things we, in the heterosexual world, take for granted day after day.
It is time for all children, regardless of their parents’ sexual orientation, to share the same rights and protections.
And it is time for our country to acknowledge that the right to love a partner, be a parent and build a family is a fundamental, equal right for each and every one of us.
Today we need your help to win this “civil rights battle rooted in love.” We need you to add your voice to the growing number of our friends who say, “This just isn’t right.” We invite you to come into the Atticus Circle and stand with others who say, “I’m ready. What can I do?”
This organization also sponsors the cross-country event "Seven Straight Nights '08" Click here to visit that website and learn more about this year's event.
It is time for us to stand up and stand with our gay and lesbian friends who are being systematically denied the most basic rights and recognition – the very things we, in the heterosexual world, take for granted day after day.
It is time for all children, regardless of their parents’ sexual orientation, to share the same rights and protections.
And it is time for our country to acknowledge that the right to love a partner, be a parent and build a family is a fundamental, equal right for each and every one of us.
Today we need your help to win this “civil rights battle rooted in love.” We need you to add your voice to the growing number of our friends who say, “This just isn’t right.” We invite you to come into the Atticus Circle and stand with others who say, “I’m ready. What can I do?”
This organization also sponsors the cross-country event "Seven Straight Nights '08" Click here to visit that website and learn more about this year's event.
Three Simple Rules.....
Bill Browning, the editor of The Bilerico Project, came up with 3 Simple Rules for Politicians in communicating to the GLBT community, and I share them with you because I think they are equally appropriate for anyone speaking to the GLBT community in general or one specific individual.
Rule #1 - Acknowledge Your Audience
Rule #2 - Don't Look Like a Pandering Fool
Rule #3 - Know the Lingo
Click here to read Bill's essay.
Rule #1 - Acknowledge Your Audience
Rule #2 - Don't Look Like a Pandering Fool
Rule #3 - Know the Lingo
Click here to read Bill's essay.
July 05, 2008
Happy Holiday Weekend
For those of you who are not U. S. residents like us, the Fourth of July weekend is a big deal in these parts. We had the opportunity to host a picnic for about 30 members of our church, friends, neighbors, and relatives yesterday. The highlight was the baptism of four people in our new church-provided pool. Afterwards, a spirited game of water volleyball broke out, and everyone enjoyed the boutiful provisions and music provided by Apostle Dale.
We are deeply blessed to be renting a home that is large enough to provide us the opportunity to do things like this. We asked for this as we prayed while we were seeking our new home and that, like so many of our prayers, was answered.
We always find it, well, really neat, to watch people interact at gatherings like this--christians and non-christians, friends and church members, people who wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to break bread together and share a conversation. You just never know how hearing a different perspective from someone might change their own outlook on life.
Anyway, that's all from us until Monday. Have a great weekend everyone. For our American readers, if you haven't done so already, please take a few moments and appreciate the freedoms we enjoy (although they have been diminished over the last few years) and how great this country still is, despite the efforts of our leaders.
We are deeply blessed to be renting a home that is large enough to provide us the opportunity to do things like this. We asked for this as we prayed while we were seeking our new home and that, like so many of our prayers, was answered.
We always find it, well, really neat, to watch people interact at gatherings like this--christians and non-christians, friends and church members, people who wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to break bread together and share a conversation. You just never know how hearing a different perspective from someone might change their own outlook on life.
Anyway, that's all from us until Monday. Have a great weekend everyone. For our American readers, if you haven't done so already, please take a few moments and appreciate the freedoms we enjoy (although they have been diminished over the last few years) and how great this country still is, despite the efforts of our leaders.
July 04, 2008
People Can Still Get Uptight Over Grown Men Kissing in the U.K.
From the London Guardian: A video is included in the link.
The UK's advertising regulator has decided not to investigate Heinz's "male kiss" TV ad, despite 215 complaints from viewers that it was offensive and "inappropriate to see two men kissing".
Heinz's TV ad for its new Deli Mayo line, which features two men sharing a brief kiss, has caused an international furore after the food company decided to pull the ad off air after less than a week.
However, the Advertising Standards Authority said today that it will not launch a formal investigation into the complaints about the TV ad.
"The ASA council considered that while some viewers may have personal objections to any portrayal of same sex kissing there was nothing in the content of the advertisement what would constitute a breach of the advertising code," said a spokesman for the ASA.
The Heinz TV ad carried an "ex-kids" restriction, meaning it cannot be shown in or around children's programming, because Heinz Deli Mayo falls foul of Ofcom's TV ad restrictions relating to junk food products.
However, the ASA received a number of complaints saying the ad was inappropriate for children to see or that it prompted awkward conversations about same sex relationships between parents and their kids.
"Even if the ad had not been subject to HFSS restrictions, the ASA would still not have investigated it," said the ASA spokesman.
Heinz UK received around "30 to 40" complaints about the ad and moved to take it off air on Friday June 20, less than a week after it launched on British TV.
Gay advocacy groups, including Stonewall and Gaydar Radio, launched campaigns to have the ad put back on air, urging people to boycott Heinz goods.
In the US, the American Family Association, a powerful Christian group, sent an email alert to its 3.5 million members encouraging them to swamp Heinz's US headquarters with complaints.
Heinz US put out a statement the day after the AFA mobilised its members apologising for its "misplaced attempt at humour", accepting "that this ad was not in accordance with our longstanding corporate policy of respecting everyone's rights and values" – even though the Heinz Deli Mayo commercial was never broadcast on TV in America.
A spokesman for Heinz said that the company had no comment to make on the ASA's decision not to investigate the TV ad.
He added that despite the ad being cleared of breaching the advertising code the company had no plans to put the Heinz Deli Mayo TV commercial back on air.
The UK's advertising regulator has decided not to investigate Heinz's "male kiss" TV ad, despite 215 complaints from viewers that it was offensive and "inappropriate to see two men kissing".
Heinz's TV ad for its new Deli Mayo line, which features two men sharing a brief kiss, has caused an international furore after the food company decided to pull the ad off air after less than a week.
However, the Advertising Standards Authority said today that it will not launch a formal investigation into the complaints about the TV ad.
"The ASA council considered that while some viewers may have personal objections to any portrayal of same sex kissing there was nothing in the content of the advertisement what would constitute a breach of the advertising code," said a spokesman for the ASA.
The Heinz TV ad carried an "ex-kids" restriction, meaning it cannot be shown in or around children's programming, because Heinz Deli Mayo falls foul of Ofcom's TV ad restrictions relating to junk food products.
However, the ASA received a number of complaints saying the ad was inappropriate for children to see or that it prompted awkward conversations about same sex relationships between parents and their kids.
"Even if the ad had not been subject to HFSS restrictions, the ASA would still not have investigated it," said the ASA spokesman.
Heinz UK received around "30 to 40" complaints about the ad and moved to take it off air on Friday June 20, less than a week after it launched on British TV.
Gay advocacy groups, including Stonewall and Gaydar Radio, launched campaigns to have the ad put back on air, urging people to boycott Heinz goods.
In the US, the American Family Association, a powerful Christian group, sent an email alert to its 3.5 million members encouraging them to swamp Heinz's US headquarters with complaints.
Heinz US put out a statement the day after the AFA mobilised its members apologising for its "misplaced attempt at humour", accepting "that this ad was not in accordance with our longstanding corporate policy of respecting everyone's rights and values" – even though the Heinz Deli Mayo commercial was never broadcast on TV in America.
A spokesman for Heinz said that the company had no comment to make on the ASA's decision not to investigate the TV ad.
He added that despite the ad being cleared of breaching the advertising code the company had no plans to put the Heinz Deli Mayo TV commercial back on air.
MySpace Friend of the Day: American Foundation for Children With AIDS
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The mission of the American Foundation for Children with AIDS is to improve the lives of children and youth struggling with the impact of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. We provide cost-effective relief, services, medical and social support, education and advocacy to help these victims achieve their full life potential.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS currently partners with four hospitals in East Africa, providing much needed anti-retroviral and chemotherapy medications, as well as medicine to treat opportunistic diseases for children aged birth-19 who are HIV+ or who have AIDS. We also provide medication for the parents or guardians of these children, as we do not want to create more orphans by ignoring their need for medication and medical care.
AFCA is focusing its support on Sub-Saharan Africa because it has been identified as one of the areas of greatest need. Nearly two-thirds of the world's HIV-positive people live in sub-Saharan Africa, although this region contains little more than 10% of the world's population. With few organizations focusing their efforts to help children affected by HIV/AIDS, AFCA has taken a stand to help in sub-Saharan Africa and remains committed to helping children live fuller and healthier lives.
The mission of the American Foundation for Children with AIDS is to improve the lives of children and youth struggling with the impact of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. We provide cost-effective relief, services, medical and social support, education and advocacy to help these victims achieve their full life potential.
The American Foundation for Children with AIDS currently partners with four hospitals in East Africa, providing much needed anti-retroviral and chemotherapy medications, as well as medicine to treat opportunistic diseases for children aged birth-19 who are HIV+ or who have AIDS. We also provide medication for the parents or guardians of these children, as we do not want to create more orphans by ignoring their need for medication and medical care.
AFCA is focusing its support on Sub-Saharan Africa because it has been identified as one of the areas of greatest need. Nearly two-thirds of the world's HIV-positive people live in sub-Saharan Africa, although this region contains little more than 10% of the world's population. With few organizations focusing their efforts to help children affected by HIV/AIDS, AFCA has taken a stand to help in sub-Saharan Africa and remains committed to helping children live fuller and healthier lives.
Let's Hear it for "Tyson Homosexual"
From PageOneQ:
You'll love this one. It's just another example of how silly the results of right-wing propaganda can be.
Is the American Family Association anti-gay... and anti-'Gay'?
OneNewsNow, the "Christian news service" covertly owned by the AFA, receives syndicated content from providers like the Associated Press and edits instances of the word "gay" to read "homosexual." Although the site is registered to the conservative, anti-gay organization, the fact is not disclosed anywhere on the site.
An article posted Sunday night about Olympic track and field star Tyson Gay was no exception.
"Tyson Homosexual easily won his semifinal for the 100 meters at the U.S. Olympic track and field trials," the article read, "and seemed to save something for the final later Sunday." The headline read "Homosexual eases into 100 final at Olympic events."
"On Saturday," it went on, "Homosexual misjudged the finish in his opening heat and had to scramble to finish fourth, then in his quarterfinal a couple of hours later, ran 9.77 to break the American record that had stood since 1999."
"Asked how he felt, Homosexual said: 'A little fatigued.'"
This morning, OneNewsNow changed its stance on 'Gays' (but not 'gays') and changed the article back to the way the AP had first written it. As late as 9:45am ET today, the online version below referenced the runner as "Tyson Homosexual"; by 10:06am ET the headline and story text had been edited to reunite Gay with his original name.
AP spokesman Jack Spokes said he could not comment without first reviewing the information first brought to him by PageOneQ. Cindy Roberts of the American Family Association said she would "take a look" at the news post. A follow-up message seeking comment on why the ownership of OneNewsNow is not disclosed on the site has not been returned.
To view the original posting, corrected version or the domain registration, click here.
You'll love this one. It's just another example of how silly the results of right-wing propaganda can be.
Is the American Family Association anti-gay... and anti-'Gay'?
OneNewsNow, the "Christian news service" covertly owned by the AFA, receives syndicated content from providers like the Associated Press and edits instances of the word "gay" to read "homosexual." Although the site is registered to the conservative, anti-gay organization, the fact is not disclosed anywhere on the site.
An article posted Sunday night about Olympic track and field star Tyson Gay was no exception.
"Tyson Homosexual easily won his semifinal for the 100 meters at the U.S. Olympic track and field trials," the article read, "and seemed to save something for the final later Sunday." The headline read "Homosexual eases into 100 final at Olympic events."
"On Saturday," it went on, "Homosexual misjudged the finish in his opening heat and had to scramble to finish fourth, then in his quarterfinal a couple of hours later, ran 9.77 to break the American record that had stood since 1999."
"Asked how he felt, Homosexual said: 'A little fatigued.'"
This morning, OneNewsNow changed its stance on 'Gays' (but not 'gays') and changed the article back to the way the AP had first written it. As late as 9:45am ET today, the online version below referenced the runner as "Tyson Homosexual"; by 10:06am ET the headline and story text had been edited to reunite Gay with his original name.
AP spokesman Jack Spokes said he could not comment without first reviewing the information first brought to him by PageOneQ. Cindy Roberts of the American Family Association said she would "take a look" at the news post. A follow-up message seeking comment on why the ownership of OneNewsNow is not disclosed on the site has not been returned.
To view the original posting, corrected version or the domain registration, click here.
July 03, 2008
More on the False Gospel of James Dobson
From Ethics Daily:
For the past eight years, James Dobson's brand of Christianity has been normative in the land. Dobson has preached a Christ acceptable to the present Bush administration. When George W. Bush and company get down on their knees, they pray to the same Christ to whom Dobson turns for guidance in making moral decisions.
Not surprisingly, Dobson has never--to the best of my knowledge--criticized Bush's policies, legislation or actions as being unchristian. And why should he? For both share a brotherhood in worshiping the same Christ.
This is a Christ who has remained silent in the face of human-right violations, atrocities and institutional violence. The Christ whom Dobson and Bush believe in is a Christ that has nothing to say about water boarding; torture of prisoners in United States; care or transporting them to nations for more extensive torture; bearing false witness to start a war; Christians dying in the desert, because they happen to be undocumented immigrants; or the poor, who since 2000 has gotten poorer.
The Christ they bear witness to resembles and justifies their power, privileges, biases and status. It is a Christ that may be affirming to a certain elite in America, but one that brings literal death to those residing on the margins of Bush and Dobson's privileged spaces.
To be a Christian who follows the teaching of the Gospel is to wage war against the Christ offered to us by Dobson and Bush. For their Christ has legitimized and normalized the social, economic and physical genocide of the world's disenfranchised. To be a Christian is to wage this war against all the forces of Satan, who have traded the liberating message of the gospel for 40 pieces of silver, and all the power, recognition and privilege that silver can buy.
Those of you who have written off Christianity, and as a result God Himself, because of how it is practiced by phairasees like James Dobson need to read the rest of this essay for more about what true Christianity resembles.
For the past eight years, James Dobson's brand of Christianity has been normative in the land. Dobson has preached a Christ acceptable to the present Bush administration. When George W. Bush and company get down on their knees, they pray to the same Christ to whom Dobson turns for guidance in making moral decisions.
Not surprisingly, Dobson has never--to the best of my knowledge--criticized Bush's policies, legislation or actions as being unchristian. And why should he? For both share a brotherhood in worshiping the same Christ.
This is a Christ who has remained silent in the face of human-right violations, atrocities and institutional violence. The Christ whom Dobson and Bush believe in is a Christ that has nothing to say about water boarding; torture of prisoners in United States; care or transporting them to nations for more extensive torture; bearing false witness to start a war; Christians dying in the desert, because they happen to be undocumented immigrants; or the poor, who since 2000 has gotten poorer.
The Christ they bear witness to resembles and justifies their power, privileges, biases and status. It is a Christ that may be affirming to a certain elite in America, but one that brings literal death to those residing on the margins of Bush and Dobson's privileged spaces.
To be a Christian who follows the teaching of the Gospel is to wage war against the Christ offered to us by Dobson and Bush. For their Christ has legitimized and normalized the social, economic and physical genocide of the world's disenfranchised. To be a Christian is to wage this war against all the forces of Satan, who have traded the liberating message of the gospel for 40 pieces of silver, and all the power, recognition and privilege that silver can buy.
Those of you who have written off Christianity, and as a result God Himself, because of how it is practiced by phairasees like James Dobson need to read the rest of this essay for more about what true Christianity resembles.
Link of the Day: Fearless, a Photography Project
http://www.fearlesscampustour.org/Home.html
“Fearless” is the name of the photography series I started almost 5 years ago about “out” high school and collegiate athletes who openly self-identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender.
Since 2003, I’ve photographed almost 60 athletes across the United States. In 2006, I began exhibiting the project at various high schools and colleges as part of what I named, “Fearless Campus Tour.” So far, the project has been seen at over twenty five campuses around the country.
The project is still ongoing (my goal is over 100 athletes before it will be published into a photobook next year) so please contact me at jeffsheng@jeffsheng(dot)com, if you are an athlete on a high school or college sports team that wishes to be photographed for “Fearless,” or would like more information about the project.
-- Jeff Sheng
“Fearless” is the name of the photography series I started almost 5 years ago about “out” high school and collegiate athletes who openly self-identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender.
Since 2003, I’ve photographed almost 60 athletes across the United States. In 2006, I began exhibiting the project at various high schools and colleges as part of what I named, “Fearless Campus Tour.” So far, the project has been seen at over twenty five campuses around the country.
The project is still ongoing (my goal is over 100 athletes before it will be published into a photobook next year) so please contact me at jeffsheng@jeffsheng(dot)com, if you are an athlete on a high school or college sports team that wishes to be photographed for “Fearless,” or would like more information about the project.
-- Jeff Sheng
Black Churches Fighting HIV
From the Tennessean (Nashville, TN):
Taking an HIV test in the pulpit Sunday morning was itself simple.
At Spruce Street Baptist Church, one of Nashville's oldest and most established predominantly African-American congregations, a public health worker opened the test kit and handed the swab it contained to the Rev. Raymond Bowman.
Bowman opened his mouth and, well, swabbed.
In the two minutes that it took, there was awkward silence. There were murmurs. Musicians broke into a low-volume instrumental, usually reserved for moments of prayer.
That scene, or something like it, was repeated Sunday in 26 other predominantly African-American churches around Nashville.
The tests and the messages from pastors that followed about the value and ease of HIV testing, the opportunity for a free test and the need for every adult to know their status were part of a Metro Health Department effort to harness the power and influence of black churches to slow the spread of HIV.
"Sexuality has always been discussed in the black church," said Bowman, after the service. "It's just that with what is going on in the world today, it has got to move from the back burner to the front. We are going to continue to talk about abstinence. But if we want our daughters and our sons to be healthy enough to marry the people that they love, we are going to have to talk about testing, too."
The federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimate at least 250,000 people in the United States are infected with HIV and are not aware of it. And in the 27 years since the HIV/AIDS epidemic began, African-Americans have come to contract HIV and die of AIDS at disproportionate rates.
While only 13 percent of the U.S. population is black, black men and women account for more than 49 percent of AIDS cases. AIDS is the leading cause of death for black women ages 25 to 34 and the second-leading cause of death for black men ages 35 to 44.
In Nashville, where about 27 percent of the population is black, 55 percent of AIDS cases involve black patients.
I hope more African-American churches follow this lead. Failing to address this issue doesn't make it go away--it only allows it to fester and grow worse.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
Taking an HIV test in the pulpit Sunday morning was itself simple.
At Spruce Street Baptist Church, one of Nashville's oldest and most established predominantly African-American congregations, a public health worker opened the test kit and handed the swab it contained to the Rev. Raymond Bowman.
Bowman opened his mouth and, well, swabbed.
In the two minutes that it took, there was awkward silence. There were murmurs. Musicians broke into a low-volume instrumental, usually reserved for moments of prayer.
That scene, or something like it, was repeated Sunday in 26 other predominantly African-American churches around Nashville.
The tests and the messages from pastors that followed about the value and ease of HIV testing, the opportunity for a free test and the need for every adult to know their status were part of a Metro Health Department effort to harness the power and influence of black churches to slow the spread of HIV.
"Sexuality has always been discussed in the black church," said Bowman, after the service. "It's just that with what is going on in the world today, it has got to move from the back burner to the front. We are going to continue to talk about abstinence. But if we want our daughters and our sons to be healthy enough to marry the people that they love, we are going to have to talk about testing, too."
The federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimate at least 250,000 people in the United States are infected with HIV and are not aware of it. And in the 27 years since the HIV/AIDS epidemic began, African-Americans have come to contract HIV and die of AIDS at disproportionate rates.
While only 13 percent of the U.S. population is black, black men and women account for more than 49 percent of AIDS cases. AIDS is the leading cause of death for black women ages 25 to 34 and the second-leading cause of death for black men ages 35 to 44.
In Nashville, where about 27 percent of the population is black, 55 percent of AIDS cases involve black patients.
I hope more African-American churches follow this lead. Failing to address this issue doesn't make it go away--it only allows it to fester and grow worse.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
July 02, 2008
Highlights from The Evangelical Network Conference
The Evangelical Network (TEN) is a network of Bible believing churches, ministries, Christian workers and individuals bound together by a common shared faith, united in purpose and witness and established as a positive resource and support for Christian gays and lesbians.
I had the pleasure of meeting TEN President Todd Ferrell in January at the Gay Christian Network conference and found him to be of like minds in his desire to minister to those in the GLBT community who had been shunned and hurt by mainstream churches, to show them that God loves them where they are and will accept, affirm, and heal them.
TEN recently held their annual conference in Phoenix and they have posted highlights from the informative speakers and workshops offered there. The speakers included Justin Lee, Executive Director of the Gay Christian Network, GLBT ally Rev. Evelyn Schave, Anthony Venn-Brown, Co-Founder of Freedom 2[B]e, a global network of GLBT people from Pentecostal and Charismatic backgrounds based in Australia, and others.
Here is the link. I highly recommend taking time to check it out.
I had the pleasure of meeting TEN President Todd Ferrell in January at the Gay Christian Network conference and found him to be of like minds in his desire to minister to those in the GLBT community who had been shunned and hurt by mainstream churches, to show them that God loves them where they are and will accept, affirm, and heal them.
TEN recently held their annual conference in Phoenix and they have posted highlights from the informative speakers and workshops offered there. The speakers included Justin Lee, Executive Director of the Gay Christian Network, GLBT ally Rev. Evelyn Schave, Anthony Venn-Brown, Co-Founder of Freedom 2[B]e, a global network of GLBT people from Pentecostal and Charismatic backgrounds based in Australia, and others.
Here is the link. I highly recommend taking time to check it out.
MySpace Friend of the Day: Freedom From Hunger
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The Problem: Imagine being so poor that you must struggle just to get enough good-quality food through the year to live a healthy, productive life. This devastating human experience is known as chronic hunger, and about one billion people live this way, including children, who are extremely vulnerable to illness made worse by malnutrition and who often die very young.
So what causes chronic hunger? You may be surprised to learn that it has little to do with food shortages. Global supplies of food far outstrip demand. Chronic hunger affects more than 800 million people in the world and it is, in and of itself, a potentially deadly condition.
Far more people die from causes related to chronic hunger than to famine. Chronically hungry people are exceptionally vulnerable when famine strikes. They have fewer resources to protect themselves and their families and are already living on the margin of survival.
Our Solution: Unlike famine or periodic hunger due to war or natural disasters, chronic hunger is a persistent and insidious condition that can affect generations of people in a geographic region. Those living with chronic hunger face a host of problems that go beyond lack of food or money.
To alleviate this condition, efforts must address root causes, be sustainable (that is, programs must pay for themselves), and they must be implemented by local people for the long term. Freedom from Hunger's Credit with Education program is just such a strategy. Freedom from Hunger and its local partners give small groups of women access to a loan and offers them a safe place to save a little money.
The loans are called “microcredit” because they can be as little as $5 or as much as $300. The loans transform women into entrepreneurs who run home-based businesses, such as making food products or crafts to sell. No longer forced to scrape together whatever money they can earn, these women generate a regular income, along with a new sense of accomplishment and self-esteem.
But increasing incomes is only the beginning of this self-help process. Freedom from Hunger’s Credit with Education program also provides vital education to women at their weekly meetings. As women gather to pay back their loans, they learn about health, nutrition, family planning and sound business practices. Using the additional income they earn from their businesses, the women act on this knowledge and begin to break the cycle of chronic hunger and poverty.
Women in developing countries are hardworking and eager to make life better for themselves and their families. Freedom from Hunger ensures they have the resources to do just that.
To learn more about Freedom from Hunger's programs, please go here.
The Problem: Imagine being so poor that you must struggle just to get enough good-quality food through the year to live a healthy, productive life. This devastating human experience is known as chronic hunger, and about one billion people live this way, including children, who are extremely vulnerable to illness made worse by malnutrition and who often die very young.
So what causes chronic hunger? You may be surprised to learn that it has little to do with food shortages. Global supplies of food far outstrip demand. Chronic hunger affects more than 800 million people in the world and it is, in and of itself, a potentially deadly condition.
Far more people die from causes related to chronic hunger than to famine. Chronically hungry people are exceptionally vulnerable when famine strikes. They have fewer resources to protect themselves and their families and are already living on the margin of survival.
Our Solution: Unlike famine or periodic hunger due to war or natural disasters, chronic hunger is a persistent and insidious condition that can affect generations of people in a geographic region. Those living with chronic hunger face a host of problems that go beyond lack of food or money.
To alleviate this condition, efforts must address root causes, be sustainable (that is, programs must pay for themselves), and they must be implemented by local people for the long term. Freedom from Hunger's Credit with Education program is just such a strategy. Freedom from Hunger and its local partners give small groups of women access to a loan and offers them a safe place to save a little money.
The loans are called “microcredit” because they can be as little as $5 or as much as $300. The loans transform women into entrepreneurs who run home-based businesses, such as making food products or crafts to sell. No longer forced to scrape together whatever money they can earn, these women generate a regular income, along with a new sense of accomplishment and self-esteem.
But increasing incomes is only the beginning of this self-help process. Freedom from Hunger’s Credit with Education program also provides vital education to women at their weekly meetings. As women gather to pay back their loans, they learn about health, nutrition, family planning and sound business practices. Using the additional income they earn from their businesses, the women act on this knowledge and begin to break the cycle of chronic hunger and poverty.
Women in developing countries are hardworking and eager to make life better for themselves and their families. Freedom from Hunger ensures they have the resources to do just that.
To learn more about Freedom from Hunger's programs, please go here.
Understanding Transgender Children
I missed this story on ABC's 20-20, but fortunately I saw a link to it on the Washington Blade and knew I should share the transcript with my readers:
Last year Barbara Walters spoke with the families of three transgender children who agreed to share their story. Now, one year later, "20/20" has reached out to the families again to learn what's happened since the original episode aired. All three families said that the story helped change their world for the better. Advocacy groups also report a significant surge in young transgenders coming out. Read below to find out more about a transgender youth called Jazz.
From the moment we're born, our gender identity is no secret. We're either a boy or a girl. Gender organizes our world into pink or blue. As we grow up, most of us naturally fit into our gender roles. Girls wear dresses and play with dolls. For boys, it's pants and trucks.
But for some children, what's between their legs doesn't match what's between their ears — they insist they were born into the wrong body. They are transgender children, diagnosed with gender identity disorder, and their parents insist this is not a phase.
"A phase is called a phase because it is just that. It ends. And this is not ending. This is just getting stronger," Renee Jennings told ABC News' Barbara Walters. The Jennings asked that "20/20" not disclose their real name in order to protect the identity of their transgender daughter, Jazz, who was six years old at the time of the show taping.
Most transgender children still live in the shadows, hiding from a world that sees them as freaks of nature. Rejected by their families, many grow up hating their bodies, and fall victim to high rates of depression, drug abuse, violence and suicide.
Today, hundreds of families with transgender children — who have found each other over the Internet — are taking a dramatically different course. They're allowing their children to live in the gender they identify with in order to save them from a future of heartache and pain.
Click here to read the rest of this important story.
Last year Barbara Walters spoke with the families of three transgender children who agreed to share their story. Now, one year later, "20/20" has reached out to the families again to learn what's happened since the original episode aired. All three families said that the story helped change their world for the better. Advocacy groups also report a significant surge in young transgenders coming out. Read below to find out more about a transgender youth called Jazz.
From the moment we're born, our gender identity is no secret. We're either a boy or a girl. Gender organizes our world into pink or blue. As we grow up, most of us naturally fit into our gender roles. Girls wear dresses and play with dolls. For boys, it's pants and trucks.
But for some children, what's between their legs doesn't match what's between their ears — they insist they were born into the wrong body. They are transgender children, diagnosed with gender identity disorder, and their parents insist this is not a phase.
"A phase is called a phase because it is just that. It ends. And this is not ending. This is just getting stronger," Renee Jennings told ABC News' Barbara Walters. The Jennings asked that "20/20" not disclose their real name in order to protect the identity of their transgender daughter, Jazz, who was six years old at the time of the show taping.
Most transgender children still live in the shadows, hiding from a world that sees them as freaks of nature. Rejected by their families, many grow up hating their bodies, and fall victim to high rates of depression, drug abuse, violence and suicide.
Today, hundreds of families with transgender children — who have found each other over the Internet — are taking a dramatically different course. They're allowing their children to live in the gender they identify with in order to save them from a future of heartache and pain.
Click here to read the rest of this important story.
July 01, 2008
AIDS a "Growing Global Disaster"
From the New York Times:
HIV/AIDS infection rates are growing among intravenous drug users, prostitutes and gay men around the globe but they are often viewed as outcasts and refused treatment, according to a report issued on Thursday.
The report, from the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, also called on governments and humanitarian agencies to pay more attention to AIDS in their response to natural disasters and armed conflicts.
"HIV is a long-term and complex disaster on many levels ... For marginalized groups across the world -- injecting drug users, sex workers and men who have sex with men -- rates are on the increase," said the Geneva-based humanitarian agency.
Those groups, living on the fringes of society in many countries and especially in the developing world, "often face stigma, criminalization and little, if any, access to prevention and treatment services," it added.
The 248-page study, an annual World Disasters Report, gave no new figures for AIDS sufferers but cited United Nations statistics that 2.1 million died from the disease last year.
Folks, this is a serious and avoidable problem. It is almost unforgivable that people on the margins are shunned and denied services that could help them.
Anyone who has even casually read the New Testament Gospels knows that most of Jesus' personal ministry on Earth was focused on just these type of people; lepers, prostitutes, the poor and destitute.
Those who deny health services to these people are acting in clear violation of the example of Jesus and the will of God--in other words, the ultimate definition of sin.
Isn't it interesting that those discriminating against those perceived as "sinners" are, in fact, sinning by doing so. Just one of the many paradoxes of true Christian faith.
Click here to read the rest of the New York Times article.
HIV/AIDS infection rates are growing among intravenous drug users, prostitutes and gay men around the globe but they are often viewed as outcasts and refused treatment, according to a report issued on Thursday.
The report, from the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, also called on governments and humanitarian agencies to pay more attention to AIDS in their response to natural disasters and armed conflicts.
"HIV is a long-term and complex disaster on many levels ... For marginalized groups across the world -- injecting drug users, sex workers and men who have sex with men -- rates are on the increase," said the Geneva-based humanitarian agency.
Those groups, living on the fringes of society in many countries and especially in the developing world, "often face stigma, criminalization and little, if any, access to prevention and treatment services," it added.
The 248-page study, an annual World Disasters Report, gave no new figures for AIDS sufferers but cited United Nations statistics that 2.1 million died from the disease last year.
Folks, this is a serious and avoidable problem. It is almost unforgivable that people on the margins are shunned and denied services that could help them.
Anyone who has even casually read the New Testament Gospels knows that most of Jesus' personal ministry on Earth was focused on just these type of people; lepers, prostitutes, the poor and destitute.
Those who deny health services to these people are acting in clear violation of the example of Jesus and the will of God--in other words, the ultimate definition of sin.
Isn't it interesting that those discriminating against those perceived as "sinners" are, in fact, sinning by doing so. Just one of the many paradoxes of true Christian faith.
Click here to read the rest of the New York Times article.
Link of the Day: James Dobson Doesn't Speak for Me
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I signed up and encourage you to consider doing the same.
James Dobson doesn't speak for me.
He doesn't speak for me when he uses religion as a wedge to divide;
He doesn't speak for me when he speaks as the final arbiter on the meaning of the Bible;
James Dobson doesn't speak for me when he uses the beliefs of others as a line of attack;
He doesn't speak for me when he denigrates his neighbor's views when they don't line up with his;
He doesn't speak for me when he seeks to confine the values of my faith to two or three issues alone;
What does speak for me is David's psalm celebrating how good and pleasant it is when we come together in unity;
Micah speaks for me in reminding us that the Lord requires us to act justly, to love mercy and to walk humbly with Him;
The prophet Isaiah speaks for me in his call for all to come and reason together and also to seek justice, encourage the oppressed and to defend the cause of the vulnerable;
The book of Nehemiah speaks for me in its example to work with our neighbors, not against them, to restore what was broken in our communities;
The book of Matthew speaks for me in saying to bless those that curse you and pray for those who persecute you;
The words of the apostle Paul speak for me in saying that words spoken and deeds done without love amount to nothing.
The apostle John speaks for me in reminding us of Jesus' command to love one another. The world will know His disciples by that love.
These words speak for me. But when James Dobson attacks Barack Obama, James Dobson doesn't speak for me.
Thank you for over 10,000 signatures!
I signed up and encourage you to consider doing the same.
James Dobson doesn't speak for me.
He doesn't speak for me when he uses religion as a wedge to divide;
He doesn't speak for me when he speaks as the final arbiter on the meaning of the Bible;
James Dobson doesn't speak for me when he uses the beliefs of others as a line of attack;
He doesn't speak for me when he denigrates his neighbor's views when they don't line up with his;
He doesn't speak for me when he seeks to confine the values of my faith to two or three issues alone;
What does speak for me is David's psalm celebrating how good and pleasant it is when we come together in unity;
Micah speaks for me in reminding us that the Lord requires us to act justly, to love mercy and to walk humbly with Him;
The prophet Isaiah speaks for me in his call for all to come and reason together and also to seek justice, encourage the oppressed and to defend the cause of the vulnerable;
The book of Nehemiah speaks for me in its example to work with our neighbors, not against them, to restore what was broken in our communities;
The book of Matthew speaks for me in saying to bless those that curse you and pray for those who persecute you;
The words of the apostle Paul speak for me in saying that words spoken and deeds done without love amount to nothing.
The apostle John speaks for me in reminding us of Jesus' command to love one another. The world will know His disciples by that love.
These words speak for me. But when James Dobson attacks Barack Obama, James Dobson doesn't speak for me.
Thank you for over 10,000 signatures!
Food and Friends Needs Your Help
Under the "Ministries We Participate Wite" section on the front page of this blog, I have listed an organization titled "Food and Friends." This is a brief description from their website:
For people living with HIV/AIDS, cancer and other life-challenging illnesses, the battle is far from over. We just make sure no one has to face it on an empty stomach.
Along with nutrition counseling, Food & Friends prepares, packages and delivers meals and groceries to more than 1,400 people living with HIV/AIDS, cancer and other life-challenging illnesses throughout Washington, DC, 7 counties of Maryland and 7 counties and 6 independent cities in Virginia. Since 1988, Food & Friends has provided food and companionship to our clients, their loved ones and caregivers.
As a Pastor-In-Training at our church, Believers Covenant Fellowship, I head up our "Helping Hands" ministry which includes collecting food to donate to Food and Friends and also helping deliver meals one Saturday a month. I believe in what they are doing, find them to be a very efficient yet genuinely caring organization, both for their clients and volunteers--I've never been more appreciated in working for anyone than for the little I directly do for Food and Friends.
I'm sharing this with you because they need some help. More from the organization's website:
Food & Friends initially received a reduction in DC Ryan White funds, a budget shortfall of $484,000. Through vigorous efforts, Food & Friends has already been able to off-set a portion of the $484,000 loss. We succeeded in obtaining a $181,000 restoration of Ryan White funding from the District of Columbia Department of Health. The Council of the District of Columbia will augment our funding by $200,000, effective October 1, 2008 (the Food & Friends fiscal year, that of the District government and the Ryan White funding cycle do not coincide). Councilmember David Catania, Chairman, Committee on Health, is supportive of our work and understands the shortfall handed to us on short notice.
Through the careful management of our personnel-related expenditures, we anticipate saving approximately $85,000 by December 31. We also plan to reduce various administrative, and other non-salary, expenditures by $27,000. To this we will add reduced expenditures for client services totaling $223,000. It is this last category of expenditures that are the most troubling, though necessary.
Although the loss of funds from public sources is exclusively from the District of Columbia Ryan White funds, impacting HIV/AIDS, we think it only fair to spread the reduced service more broadly. Most charitable funds contributed to Food & Friends are for the benefit of all clients. The limitation of reduced spending, if applied only to persons living with HIV/AIDS in the District, would truly devastate the level of care we provide. This burden must be shared by HIV/AIDS clients and those living with other life-challenging illnesses so that we may sustain our core commitment to the battle against HIV/AIDS while we continue to provide for persons with other illnesses on an equal basis.
How can you help, even if you don't live in the Washington, DC area? Here is their suggestion:
With rising fuel prices, this funding shortfall hits Food & Friends particularly hard. Our delivery vehicles drive more than 1,300 miles each day (that's more than 32,000 miles each month!), and you can help ease the burden by volunteering to deliver meals.
You can also help to offset our budget shortfall by making a tax-deductible gift to Food & Friends -- every dollar helps! To make a recurring gift, contact Alicia Toles to join Food & Friends' Bread & Butter club.
I have been truly blessed by reaching out to people who need it, both by collecting food and delivering it. I'm going to try and mobilize support within my church, but I'm also asking you to consider helping out in any way you can.
Rising expenses are hurting more people than not these days, and I realize you are probably receiving more appeals like this than you really care to. If you have received any blessing or encouragement from the work of this blog, however, supporting Food and Friends would be a good way to show your appreciation.
Thanks in advance for your thoughtful and prayerful consideration.
For people living with HIV/AIDS, cancer and other life-challenging illnesses, the battle is far from over. We just make sure no one has to face it on an empty stomach.
Along with nutrition counseling, Food & Friends prepares, packages and delivers meals and groceries to more than 1,400 people living with HIV/AIDS, cancer and other life-challenging illnesses throughout Washington, DC, 7 counties of Maryland and 7 counties and 6 independent cities in Virginia. Since 1988, Food & Friends has provided food and companionship to our clients, their loved ones and caregivers.
As a Pastor-In-Training at our church, Believers Covenant Fellowship, I head up our "Helping Hands" ministry which includes collecting food to donate to Food and Friends and also helping deliver meals one Saturday a month. I believe in what they are doing, find them to be a very efficient yet genuinely caring organization, both for their clients and volunteers--I've never been more appreciated in working for anyone than for the little I directly do for Food and Friends.
I'm sharing this with you because they need some help. More from the organization's website:
Food & Friends initially received a reduction in DC Ryan White funds, a budget shortfall of $484,000. Through vigorous efforts, Food & Friends has already been able to off-set a portion of the $484,000 loss. We succeeded in obtaining a $181,000 restoration of Ryan White funding from the District of Columbia Department of Health. The Council of the District of Columbia will augment our funding by $200,000, effective October 1, 2008 (the Food & Friends fiscal year, that of the District government and the Ryan White funding cycle do not coincide). Councilmember David Catania, Chairman, Committee on Health, is supportive of our work and understands the shortfall handed to us on short notice.
Through the careful management of our personnel-related expenditures, we anticipate saving approximately $85,000 by December 31. We also plan to reduce various administrative, and other non-salary, expenditures by $27,000. To this we will add reduced expenditures for client services totaling $223,000. It is this last category of expenditures that are the most troubling, though necessary.
Although the loss of funds from public sources is exclusively from the District of Columbia Ryan White funds, impacting HIV/AIDS, we think it only fair to spread the reduced service more broadly. Most charitable funds contributed to Food & Friends are for the benefit of all clients. The limitation of reduced spending, if applied only to persons living with HIV/AIDS in the District, would truly devastate the level of care we provide. This burden must be shared by HIV/AIDS clients and those living with other life-challenging illnesses so that we may sustain our core commitment to the battle against HIV/AIDS while we continue to provide for persons with other illnesses on an equal basis.
How can you help, even if you don't live in the Washington, DC area? Here is their suggestion:
With rising fuel prices, this funding shortfall hits Food & Friends particularly hard. Our delivery vehicles drive more than 1,300 miles each day (that's more than 32,000 miles each month!), and you can help ease the burden by volunteering to deliver meals.
You can also help to offset our budget shortfall by making a tax-deductible gift to Food & Friends -- every dollar helps! To make a recurring gift, contact Alicia Toles to join Food & Friends' Bread & Butter club.
I have been truly blessed by reaching out to people who need it, both by collecting food and delivering it. I'm going to try and mobilize support within my church, but I'm also asking you to consider helping out in any way you can.
Rising expenses are hurting more people than not these days, and I realize you are probably receiving more appeals like this than you really care to. If you have received any blessing or encouragement from the work of this blog, however, supporting Food and Friends would be a good way to show your appreciation.
Thanks in advance for your thoughtful and prayerful consideration.
June 30, 2008
I'm Not Sure If This Really Helps.....
but Washington D. C. City Councilman and former mayor Marion Barry has said he would support a bill legalizing same-sex marriage in the city if one is introduced in the council.
Many outside the city limits consider Barry, who did jail time after an arrest on drug charges in 1990 and has subsequently been charged with tax violations, drug posession, and DUI, an embarrasment to the city, but he still has strong support inside the lines, particularly in Ward 8 which he currently represents in the city council.
Barry has been considered a friend of the GLBT community, however, and I suppose influential friends are always good people to have on your side.
Many outside the city limits consider Barry, who did jail time after an arrest on drug charges in 1990 and has subsequently been charged with tax violations, drug posession, and DUI, an embarrasment to the city, but he still has strong support inside the lines, particularly in Ward 8 which he currently represents in the city council.
Barry has been considered a friend of the GLBT community, however, and I suppose influential friends are always good people to have on your side.
MySpace Friend of the Day: Raging Fire Ministries
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Raging Fire Ministries is a non-denominational church that welcomes ALL people. We do not discriminate against race, religious background, sex, disabilities, national origin, or sexual orientation. We believe the gospel and love of Jesus Christ is for ALL people. It is our mission to love not judge. We worship every Sunday at 1:00 at Raging Fire Ministries, 606 Mercer St., Princeton, WV. You can send us a message if you would like to know more or visit our website at: www.ragingfireministries.homestead.com
Raging Fire Ministries is a non-denominational church that welcomes ALL people. We do not discriminate against race, religious background, sex, disabilities, national origin, or sexual orientation. We believe the gospel and love of Jesus Christ is for ALL people. It is our mission to love not judge. We worship every Sunday at 1:00 at Raging Fire Ministries, 606 Mercer St., Princeton, WV. You can send us a message if you would like to know more or visit our website at: www.ragingfireministries.homestead.com
I know most of us love an opportunity to get together with friends and have a good time. Many of you head out to the clubs on the weekends....looking for a place to relax, be yourselves, and enjoy friendships with those who understand who you are. Just wanted to let you know that you can find all that and more at our weekend celebration.....July 11, 12, and 13.
We are celebrating our 1 year anniversary! God has been good to us and our church and I am excited to see what's coming up in our 2nd year! We have lots of details about the weekend of events on our official website at www. ragingfireministries. homestead. com We have much planned including 3 worship services, a workshop, and a picnic on Sunday. Go to our site and check it all out! It's gonna be great! You ought to come......it would be good for you in more ways than you know! Hope to see you all soon.
Love and Prayers, Pastor Sherry
Understanding of Marriage is Evolving, Not Static
Generally those who claim moral certainty are only certain of their narrow interpreation of scripture and are often oblivious (or intentionally ignore) the history of how clergy and religious scholars have viewed issues over the years, decades, and centures.
The issue of same-sex marriage is a prime example of this practice. This article from The Guardian (London, England) adresses the ever-changing view of marriage, both in society and in churches and offers the opinion that acceptance of same-sex marriage is the next logical step in that evolution. (hat-tip to Freedom to Marry)
Our evolving understanding of what marriage is leads, of necessity, to a re-examination of who it is for. Most Christian denominations no longer teach that all sex acts must be open to the possibility of procreation (hence, contraception is permitted). Nor do they hold that infertility precludes marriage. The church has deepened its understanding of the way in which faithful couples experience and embody the love of the creator for creation. In so doing, it has put itself in a position to consider whether same-sex couples should be allowed to marry.
Opponents of gay marriage may raise other objections - that it is unsuitable, for instance, to raise children with two mothers or two fathers. I believe these arguments are easily refuted, but they are arguments about effective social policy, not sound theology. Christians who want to deny others the blessings they claim for themselves should not assume they speak for the Almighty.
Click here for the rest of the article, as the writer walks through some of the changing views of marriage over time.
The issue of same-sex marriage is a prime example of this practice. This article from The Guardian (London, England) adresses the ever-changing view of marriage, both in society and in churches and offers the opinion that acceptance of same-sex marriage is the next logical step in that evolution. (hat-tip to Freedom to Marry)
Our evolving understanding of what marriage is leads, of necessity, to a re-examination of who it is for. Most Christian denominations no longer teach that all sex acts must be open to the possibility of procreation (hence, contraception is permitted). Nor do they hold that infertility precludes marriage. The church has deepened its understanding of the way in which faithful couples experience and embody the love of the creator for creation. In so doing, it has put itself in a position to consider whether same-sex couples should be allowed to marry.
Opponents of gay marriage may raise other objections - that it is unsuitable, for instance, to raise children with two mothers or two fathers. I believe these arguments are easily refuted, but they are arguments about effective social policy, not sound theology. Christians who want to deny others the blessings they claim for themselves should not assume they speak for the Almighty.
Click here for the rest of the article, as the writer walks through some of the changing views of marriage over time.
June 29, 2008
Presbyterian USA Assembly Votes to Allow Gay Clergy
From the Christian Post:
The Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.)'s highest governing body voted Friday in favor of a proposal that would allow for the ordination of non-celibate gays and lesbians.
The 218th General Assembly, meeting in San Jose, Calif., this week, voted 380-325 to send the overture – that would delete the requirement that clergy live in "fidelity within the covenant of marriage between and a man and a woman, or chastity in singleness" – to the denomination's 173 presbyteries for approval.
Adding to the blow to conservatives, the Assembly also adopted a supplementary authoritative interpretation of the PC(USA) constitution that would allow gay and lesbian candidates for ordination to conscientiously object the current "fidelity and chastity" standard and the local ordaining body to discern whether the declared objection is disqualifying.
The vote comes a day after the Assembly approved a proposal to begin revising the Heidelberg Catechism – a document of the Reformed Christian faith – which would include removing the reference to "homosexual perversion" among a list of sinful behaviors.
Click here to read the rest of the story. I suggest you skip the comments below--the Christian Post attracts a lot of conservative readers and I found some reactions to this story quite objectionable.
The Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.)'s highest governing body voted Friday in favor of a proposal that would allow for the ordination of non-celibate gays and lesbians.
The 218th General Assembly, meeting in San Jose, Calif., this week, voted 380-325 to send the overture – that would delete the requirement that clergy live in "fidelity within the covenant of marriage between and a man and a woman, or chastity in singleness" – to the denomination's 173 presbyteries for approval.
Adding to the blow to conservatives, the Assembly also adopted a supplementary authoritative interpretation of the PC(USA) constitution that would allow gay and lesbian candidates for ordination to conscientiously object the current "fidelity and chastity" standard and the local ordaining body to discern whether the declared objection is disqualifying.
The vote comes a day after the Assembly approved a proposal to begin revising the Heidelberg Catechism – a document of the Reformed Christian faith – which would include removing the reference to "homosexual perversion" among a list of sinful behaviors.
Click here to read the rest of the story. I suggest you skip the comments below--the Christian Post attracts a lot of conservative readers and I found some reactions to this story quite objectionable.
Are You Sure You Will Go to Heaven When You Die?
Billy Graham addresses this question for the Christian Post:
Q: I've heard people say that all I have to do to get to heaven is to believe in Jesus. Well, I think I believe in Jesus, but down inside I'm not at all sure I'll go to heaven when I die. In fact, I kind of doubt if I will. What am I missing? - V.S.
A: I'm thankful you've taken the time to write and ask this question - because the most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible warns, "How shall we escape if we ignore such a great salvation?" (Hebrews 2:3). What you've heard is right: All we have to do to get into heaven is to believe in Jesus. Jesus Himself said, "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life" (John 3:36). But what does it mean to "believe" in Jesus? Does that mean simply to believe that He existed, or even that He came down from heaven to save us?
No, to believe in Jesus means far more than this. It means first of all that we understand who He is: the only Son of God, sent from heaven to save us from our sins. It means we also understand what He did for us: He died on the cross to take away our sins. The Bible says, "This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins" (1 John 4:10).
But to believe in Jesus also means to trust Him as our Savior, and commit our lives to Him as our Lord. In other words, to believe in Jesus is to turn our lives over to Him - completely and without reserve. And this is what I urge you to do. By a simple prayer of faith commit your life to Jesus Christ today.
Q: I've heard people say that all I have to do to get to heaven is to believe in Jesus. Well, I think I believe in Jesus, but down inside I'm not at all sure I'll go to heaven when I die. In fact, I kind of doubt if I will. What am I missing? - V.S.
A: I'm thankful you've taken the time to write and ask this question - because the most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible warns, "How shall we escape if we ignore such a great salvation?" (Hebrews 2:3). What you've heard is right: All we have to do to get into heaven is to believe in Jesus. Jesus Himself said, "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life" (John 3:36). But what does it mean to "believe" in Jesus? Does that mean simply to believe that He existed, or even that He came down from heaven to save us?
No, to believe in Jesus means far more than this. It means first of all that we understand who He is: the only Son of God, sent from heaven to save us from our sins. It means we also understand what He did for us: He died on the cross to take away our sins. The Bible says, "This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins" (1 John 4:10).
But to believe in Jesus also means to trust Him as our Savior, and commit our lives to Him as our Lord. In other words, to believe in Jesus is to turn our lives over to Him - completely and without reserve. And this is what I urge you to do. By a simple prayer of faith commit your life to Jesus Christ today.
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