October 07, 2009

The threat of a same-sex couple not being together when one of them is in a life-threatening situation in a hosiptal is very real, and so are the pain and the scars it leaves. Here is a story from the New York Times which illustrates it:

When a loved one is in the hospital, you naturally want to be at the bedside. But what if the staff won’t allow it?

That’s what Janice Langbehn, a social worker in Lacey, Wash., says she experienced when her partner of 18 years, Lisa Pond, collapsed with an aneurysm during a Florida vacation and was taken to a Miami trauma center. She died there, at age 39, as Ms. Langbehn tried in vain to persuade hospital officials to let her visit, along with the couple’s adopted children.

“I have this deep sense of failure for not being at Lisa’s bedside when she died,” Ms. Langbehn said. “How I get over that I don’t know, or if I ever do.”


Isn't this situation most often brought about by the prejudices of the hospital staff or those who make regulations the staff is required to follow? Hopefully telling these stories will help prevent more from occurring.

Click here to read the rest of the New York Times story.
The case, now the subject of a federal lawsuit in Florida, is being watched by gay rights groups, which say same-sex partners often report being excluded from a patient’s room because they aren’t “real” family members.

And lawyers say the case could affect the way hospitals treat all patients with nonmarital relationships, including older people who choose not to marry, unmarried heterosexual couples and single people who rely on the support of close friends rather than relatives.

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