July 26, 2008

Bishop Robinson: "We Are Not Going Away"

A conservative Anglican bishop called for Bishop Gene Robinson to step down this past week. Bishop Robinson responsed to that in a way that put the issue of his ordination and service in perspective:

From the Christian Post:

"Those calling for my resignation seem to be under the impression that if Gene Robinson went away, that all would go back to being 'like it was,' whatever that was! Does ANYONE think that if I resigned, this issue would go away?!" New Hampshire Bishop Gene Robinson said Wednesday in his blog.

"We are not going away, as much as some would like us to," Robinson added, referring to gays and lesbians.

They SHOULDN'T go away! GLBT people have just as much right as anyone to a seat at the table of the Lord, and therefore should have equal opportunity to serve in a ministry capacity.

It's really a very simple issue, but never underestimate the power of organized religion to make things very complicated.

July 25, 2008

Link of the Day: Jesus Politics

http://jesuspolitics.typepad.com/jesus_politics/

My interest in Jesus goes back to when I was born in Brazil where my parents were Southern Baptist missionaries. Jesus Politics is a collection of readings from the Christian right to the Jesus left.

Newsweek on the Lawrence King Murder

The cover story on this week's edition of Newsweek magazine was an investigation into the background regarding the murder of high school student Lawrence King back in February.

Click here to read the article.

Over at Box Turtle Bulletin, Timothy Kinkaid was very disappointed with the nature of the article and the writer, Ramin Setoodeh, who was assigned to it:

To Setoodeh, Larry was the primary source of disturbance on campus. He wore makeup and “thought nothing of chasing the boys around the school in [high heels], teetering as he ran.” He was “a troubled child who flaunted his sexuality and wielded it like a weapon”. “He went to school accessorized to the max” and would “sidle up to the popular boys’ table and say in a high-pitched voice, “Mind if I sit here?””

If there were any residents of Oxnard that didn’t view Larry as a prancing mincing menace intent on wreaking havoc on all around him, Setoodeh didn’t seem to find them. He found instead an attorney with a “gay panic” defense, a litigious adoptive father who resents the gay community for caring about Larry’s murder, and several teachers who objected to his effeminate ways.

In short, there’s very little in the Newsweek article that would not seem more at home on World Net Daily or a press release from the American Family Association.

Setoodeh may have let inexperience and limited input sway his judgment into writing a hit piece on the victim. He is, after all, an odd choice for an in depth article about social interactions in an elementary school. His prior articles appear to consist primarily of celebrity interviews and entertainment commentary.

But though Setoodeh had not written substantive work for Newsweek before this, it is not the first time that he has shown awkwardness around the subject of homosexuality.

I don’t know Ramin Setoodeh’s orientation or his personal tastes or biases. Nor do I know his reasons for writing an article that serves as little more than a press release for the defense on this murder case.

But whatever his motivations, it is clear to me that he was tragically under-qualified for the job and his lack of experience showed in his use of language and in his final product.

Unfortunately, I concur with Kincaid's take. While this article certainly doesn't condone the act of murder, in my opinion there was a strong element of "he asked for it" throughout the piece.

If Setoodeh had written that about a woman who had been raped and then killed, he'd probably be unemployed, and likely deservedly so.

Sadly, that approach still seems to be okay when the victim is gay, especially one who had the nerve to be flamboyant about it.

July 24, 2008

MySpace Friend of the Day: Give Love Give Life

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Give Love Give Life is an attitude focused on the health of women and children, about what we have in common – women and children. This is not about our differences – political, class, racial or religious. This is not about whether we are from the left or from the right. This is not about whose fault it is.

This is not about whose medicine is the best. This is not about our differences. We all have our differences. Give Love Give Life is about what we have in common. Too often in the chaos of the world we are in, there seems to be a programmed focus on our differences, and this focus on our differences is perpetually being emotionally manipulated to the point that we no longer remember what we have in common. We are human beings. It is time to think together and show responsibility to the women and children.

What About "The Will of the People" Now?

One of the most tiresome arguements against same-sex marriage and extension of other legal rights to GLBT people is that it goes against "the will of the people," as if rights for minorities should be determined by the will (or whim) of the majority.

So why aren't those same people speaking out in favor of ending the "don't ask, don't tell" policy in the U. S. military? That's just a rhetorical question, I know the answer--because it doesn't suit their biased, narrow-minded views. At least on this issue, it appears a majority of Americans have grown beyond that and embrace GLBT people's rights to serve and defend their nation.

From Pink News:

A new survey by the Washington Post and ABC News has found that three-quarters of Americans think that openly gay, lesbian and bisexual people should be allowed to serve in the military.

64% of Republicans and nearly two thirds of self-described conservatives backed a change in the current law, as did 57% of white evangelical Protestants and 82% of white Catholics.

It was Republican opposition that forced then-President Bill Clinton to abandon his pledge to allow gay people to serve and signed into law the compromise known as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."

Since 1993 gay people who do not reveal their sexuality can serve, and commanding officers are not meant to ask service personnel about their sexual orientation.

More than 12,000 gay men and women have been discharged under the current law, at an estimated cost of more than $363 million (£182.6m).
The new poll of 1,119 Americans, taken earlier this month, shows how support for gays in the military has steadily increased, from 44% in 1993 to 62% in 2001 to 75% today.


Click here to read the rest of the article.

July 23, 2008

Link of the Day: International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission

http://www.iglhrc.org/site/iglhrc/section.php?id=23

The mission of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) is to secure the full enjoyment of the human rights of all people and communities subject to discrimination or abuse on the basis of sexual orientation or expression, gender identity or expression, and/or HIV status. A US-based non-profit, non-governmental organization (NGO), IGLHRC effects this mission through advocacy, documentation, coalition building, public education, and technical assistance.

"Christian Beliefs" vs. Job responsibilities

From PinkNews UK:

Two leading gay Christian organisations have said that an employment tribunal victory for London registrar Lillian Ladele is "disappointing."

The tribunal ruled that Ms Ladele had been discriminated against by employer. Islington Council, because of her refusal to carry out civil partnerships for LGBT couples on the grounds of her orthodox Christian beliefs.

Ms Ledele originally swapped with colleagues to avoid performing gay and lesbian ceremonies after civil partnerships became legal in 2005.
After formal complaints were made against her, an internal disciplinary investigation began.


I respect Ms. Ledele's right to her beliefs, but to use them as an acceptable reason not to perform the required functions of her job is troubling and, I fear, a very slippery slope.

How far can this principle be taken? What religious beliefs are allowable to avoid execution of someone's job and what ones aren't? Who can truly make an objective decision like that without having their religious beliefs influencing it?

It seems clear to me--if your professed religious views prevent you from fully performing your job, it's time to find another job and allow someone with different beliefs, ones that comply with the law, performing that one.

Click here to read the entire report on Pink News.

July 22, 2008

MySpace Friend of the Day: Lifelong AIDS Alliance

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Lifelong AIDS Alliance is committed to preventing the spread of HIV, and to providing practical support services and advocating for those whose lives are affected by HIV and AIDS. We are the largest AIDS service organization in the Pacific Northwest, serving more than 3,000 people living with HIV/AIDS in Seattle/King County. Visit www.llaa.org for more information about Lifelong.

This organization is also involved in Seattle's AIDS Walk on October 4, 2008.

Praise Report from BCF 7/21/08

Greetings BCF Family & Friends,

What a joy and blessing it is to be the Apostolic Pastor of Believers Covenant Fellowship! I just want to take a moment to thank all of you for the ways you remembered my birthday yesterday and honored me with your love and gifts. I am especially touched by the poem that Ray wrote and Erica did such a beautiful work framing for me. Thank you all soooo very much! It is an awesome privilege that I take very serious to be your Apostle and your friend. God bless you!

And thanks to everyone around the country and world who sent e-cards or left voice mail messages! Such a myriad of diverse renditions of "Happy Birthday!" LOL!! I loved them all!

We had a wonderful service and a great time together yesterday, as always! The Holy Spirit was pressing us to move past blockages and hindrances to entering in to His presence. I know that the enemy has been working overtime to try to get the Church to be in offense, unforgiveness, and strife with others. The Lord reminded us of exactly WHO our enemy is, and it's not people! We are determined to obey the Lord our God, and live free of strife, especially within Father's House. You know, we each have GOT to make that determination and stick with it, don't we! Reconciling with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship is automatically restored to what it had been....we've learned that trust is earned, loyalty is built, love grows....over time and consistency of hearts. BUT we must keep our hearts clear of strife with others, for faith worketh by LOVE, and strife stops up our love walk!

Yesterday's worship was powerful in leading us to make those decisive steps....and the blessing of His presence flowed! We love the Lord sooo much, He is always soooo good to us.

It's also exciting to tell you that we received 7 new members into covenant with us yesterday! We have 5 more to take in next week, and a blessing to bestow upon Brother Rick and Brother Tim as they move to Puerto Rico to start "Barefoot Church on the Beach" ministry! This is exciting, and we want to support their labors and efforts for the King. Brother Rick will be speaking to us about reaching the Harvest; We must be good stewards of God's Harvest and bring it in!

So don't miss next Sunday service!

After service, the congregation surprised me with a beautiful buffet lunch which we all indulged in! The Peanut Butter Cake was totally the bomb!!! I had the last piece for breakfast this morning! :-) (I know, diet, diet, diet....but it's my birthday!) Thank you for all the love and effort each of you put in to making the day special. Just seeing how much you all love and care about one another makes it wonderful.

Don't forget Friday night Movie Nights at BCF, 6:30 and 9 PM showings. And this coming Thursday is very special as we witness Brother Ray and Sister Wanda Green's recommitment ceremony! They are celebrating their 7th Anniversary, and want to have their BCF family and myself to lead them in recommitting their lives to one another! Another awesome testimony of how the Holy Spirit is leading and directing our lives in His righteousness.

Have a wonderful week, we are praying for each of you, please continue to hold us up as well.

Shalom-nothing missing, nothing broken!

In Christ's love and faithful friendship,

Ap Dale

July 21, 2008

Link of the Day: Religion and Gays

http://www.religionandgays.org/

A Non-Sectarian, Non-Partisan Service of the Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus

Religion is the genesis of the controversy, both the beginning and the framework in which the intense debate is waged .

What one believes religion teaches about homosexuality is often the partition that divides those who support gay rights and those who do not. People of strong faith are on both sides.

By providing links to a wide variety of websites it is our hope we might increase the knowledge and improve the understanding we have for each other. While other faiths are included, there is an emphasis on Christianity because in the USA thatis the religion that drives the discussion .

Civil Union vs. Gay Marriage... one person's perspective.

Got this from our friends at Bella Online. For the entire article, go to:

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art56284.asp/zzz

Civil Union verses Gay Marriage

"Is there really a difference when it comes to civil unions and gay marriage? What is in a simple word? Is there really a case that one is better over the other? Why should it really matter if we get the rights we want in the end? I will tell you why it matters.A Gay Marriage is essentially MARRIAGE! There is no way to get around the meaning of the word. A marriage is a marriage is a marriage is a marriage. Plain and simple, and to the point. You have all the rights and responsibilities of any other married person. However, you will not be recognized by the Federal Government because of DOMA of course. Maybe someday, but not now! You also have to remember you can only get married in Massachusetts. Lonely life there in good ole Mass!

A Civil Union is not a Marriage. It is like comparing apples to oranges or salt to sugar. It is like oil and water; they do not mix and cannot be used interchangeably. What is it really? Simply enough a civil union is a simple contract recognized by the state (if your state has it) that gives you the “feel” of being married. In that state, and that state alone, unless of course your state also recognizes out-of-state issued civil unions, you will have the “honor” and “privilege” of being in an almost “marriage”. You will be responsible for each other. You can file joint state taxes. You can have children together and be responsible for them if your union is dissolved. You can go in your partner’s room and make medical decisions for them if they are incapacitated. An almost marriage, but not a “real” marriage..."

I can see their point. I, personally, would be willing to accept civil unions because I know that there are still a LOT of straights (and gays for that matter) in this country who are very uncomfortable with gay marriage, but don't have any issue with us having civil unions. Is it fair? No! However, it is more than what I have now. Call that settling. Call it giving in. I call it a step in the right direction.

July 20, 2008

A Different Look

I hope you like the new format for this blog. After a little over three years, I thought it was time to redecorate, and blue has always been my favorite color.

I've also added "My Blog List" which will provide news updates from some of the sites I use as primary sources for my posting. As I move into a full-fledged pastoral role at my church, I probably won't have time to comment on as many current events as I have been, but I want to make sure this blog continues to be a valuable resource for anyone interested in the GLBT community and faith so I including news items right from the source.

Next week, I'll also be adding a new feature, "Affirming Church of the Day," which will rotate with the "MySpace Friend of the Day" and "Link of the Day" features I recently added. I'll be featuring affirming church websites that are rich with sermons and other valuable information.

Thanks for your continued interest, support, and prayers. I am praying for you.

Jim

July 19, 2008

Stewardship Is About Trust

This is the sermon I preached last Sunday at BCF. I appreciate the kind words Apostle Dale had to say about it in the praise report and I'm happy to share it with you. When I prepared this sermon, I was really struck by just how much God trusts us and wants us to trust Him back.

July 18, 2008

Praise Report from BCF

When I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God, whose Word I praise,In God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can mortal man do to me? Psalm 56:3-4

Greetings BCF Family & Friends!

It’s with great joy that I am writing to you today. We have just had another awesome Sunday of worship, teaching, ministry and fellowship, and the Lord is blessing us in soooo many ways.

First, our pastor in training, Jim Johnson, preached a terrific sermon in our “Stewardship Month” series. He pointed out something that I hadn’t quite thought about, that God TRUSTS US!! God trusts us to be good stewards of His creation, His Church, His people, and all that He has blessed us personally with to steward. I hadn’t thought of it that way, but it added a new dimension to how our ATTITUDE should be about the earth, the ministry, the people of God, the HARVEST, we are actually taking care of God’s property! What an awesome responsibility.

We were then blessed by the testimony of Brother Ray Green. He, his spouse Wanda, and Brother Ken Mifflin shared how the Lord put it upon their hearts to go into downtown DC and minister to the needy. With only $10, they testified how the Lord showed them to divide two sub sandwiches, along with some bottled water, and were able to feed and minister to 8 people! That may seem small to you, but it’s really quite significant!! They confirmed for the second time, the Will and Direction the Holy Spirit is calling BCF to go in the Hebrew New Year and Fall Season. Get ready BCF, we’re going OUT to bring IN the Harvest of the Lord! Our congregation was so moved by their testimony, that they started pulling out their wallets and handing me money, saying, “Here Apostle, let’s do this again and again!” I opened up the altar and before we knew it, we had received over $400 towards our Helping Hands and Evangelism Ministries! Praise the Lord! Thank you Ray, Wanda and Ken for your obedience and faithfulness! The Spirit has spoken and moved upon all our hearts through your obedience!!

We are a blessed congregation and we are GROWING! I’m thrilled to announce that we will be receiving 10 new members into Covenant Relationship with us the next two Sundays. And our congregational meeting was a blessing when we learned that not only are we meeting our weekly/monthly budget, but we are currently running a $5,000 surplus! The Lord is releasing the increase of provision in our midst!

Also, we are blessed to tell you that BCF will soon be Apostolically planting a new church/ministry in Puerto Rico ! Brother Rick and Brother Tim will be moving there within the month, and we are going to cover them and bless them to start the “Church on the Beach” Ministry! We’ll be going there in January to help support them and lay hands on them! Praise God!

I am reminded that the Holy Spirit has been calling us to enter into His rest and TRUST Him, He will always provide and He has promised to bless the righteous. One of Brother Jim’s scriptures yesterday reminds us what the Lord Jesus said:

“Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.” John 15:4,5

Let’s all continue to PRESS IN to the Lord and TRUST Him; Remember to stay under cover and in step with the Spirit and the anointed leadership of His Church; Don't get ahead of God, wait upon the Lord, trust in Him- He is faithful and will always make a way for us.

Please continue to remember us in your prayers. This is an exciting time in our lives and in this ministry. KNOW that we, too, are praying for each of you and our network of churches.
Shalom, we love you with the Love of the Lord!

Yahweh bless You and make His face to shine on you!
Ap Dale

MySpace Friend of the Day: Nebraska Pride

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Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, straight, moms, dads, grandmas, grandpas, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, friends, employed, unemployed, black, white, latina/o... there are no boundaries of who we are, meaning NO ONE IS EXCLUDED!

Rainbow Celebrations is a community-wide, volunteer nonprofit Nebraska corporation, and the official home of the annual Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Nebraska Pride Parade & Festival and the annual National Coming Out Day Celebration. Formed in 2002, Rainbow Celebrations seeks to advance educational and social activities for the GLBT communities of Nebraska and western Iowa.

Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride believe's in an open and committed community, however neither Rainbow Celebrations and Nebraska Pride has found certain forms of commercial advertising being offered by myspace users as questionable. Therefore, we will not authorize or approve any such member that appears to be solely for commercial gain or in questionable commercial commerce.

July 17, 2008

Ex-Gay Leader Says Gays Are In Heaven!

I saw this article from Ex-Gay Watch and about fell over. Here's an excerpt. For the entire article, go to:

http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2008/07/exodus-president-alan-chambers-gay-people-live-in-heaven/


"The Asheville, NC Citizen-Times ran an article Monday on Exodus International’s annual conference, which started yesterday in neighboring Ridgecrest.


The article profiles Exodus and its activities, as well as Equality Asheville, which is offering counter programming with the message “you’re okay the way you are.”Both sides are given equal time, with quotes from Exodus leaders presented alongside statements by Wayne Besen and several members of Equality Asheville.


For the most part, it’s business as usual. What stands out is a rather surprising comment by Alan Chambers:“The truth is that homosexuality does not send people to hell. Gay people live in heaven. It’s not about fire and brimstone, it’s about an alternative option,” Chambers said.While


Exodus and its allies have for some time avoided directly stating that “gay-identified” Christians will end up in hell, this is nonetheless an extraordinary statement coming from the head of an organization founded on the premise that homosexuality and Christianity are completely incompatible..."


What? I'm going to heaven after all? What a concept! This article says to me that the mainline Church is really starting to understand that they have got to watch what they say about glbt people.


In the past, we were fodder for whatever fundraising campaign they were running and they seemed to feel they could spout all kinds of foul accusations about us. They didn't bat an eyelash.


However, I'm seeing a small shift. I think a lot of young people and family and friends of gays and lesbians are starting to say they don't appreciate that kind of thing. Maybe they go to their pastor and tell them how they feel. Maybe they just share it with friends. Whatever the case, it seems that our family and friends are starting to rise up and I for one appreciate it!


Call me hopelessly optimistic, but I'm excited that the leader of one of the biggest ex-gay organizations has said that glbt Christians are no less Christians because of our sexual orientation. It's a step in the right direction.

Link of the Day: Sojurners

http://www.sojo.net/index.cfm

Our mission is to articulate the biblical call to social justice, inspiring hope and building a movement to transform individuals, communities, the church, and the world.

In response to this call, we offer a vision for faith in public life by:
o publishing
Sojourners magazine, SojoMail and other resources that address issues of faith, politics, and culture from a biblical perspective;
o preaching, teaching, organizing, and public witness;
o nurturing community by
bringing together people from the various traditions and streams of the church;
o hosting an annual
program of voluntary service for education, ministry, and discipleship.

In our lives and in our work, we seek to be guided by the biblical principles of justice, mercy, and humility.

July 16, 2008

MySpace Friend of the Day: Mountain of Love Ministries

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=180713312&MyToken=168f06f5-df43-43b5-ad66-dd3d1305a724

Fountain of Love Ministries is designed to show all people the love of Jesus.We believe in I Cor. 13 "and the greatest of these is love". How can we say we love Jesus who we have never seen and not love our brothers and sisters.

We will strive to be instrumental in mending the hearts of those that have been hurt, broken, rejected, down-trotten, and cast aside.

For there is a fountain filled with the love of God that will flow from heart to heart.

Fountain of Love Ministries is based in Ft Lauderdale Florida.

July 15, 2008

Let's Give McDonalds Some Love

I'll admit it, I love McDonalds. Meals there are a major part of my life. Nothing to brag about, mind you, but I share that in the interest of full disclosure regarding this post.

You see, our buddies at the American Family Association have their knickers in a twist because McDonalds has the nerve to contribute to the Gay Chamber of Commerce. The AFA strongly defends the free-market system, unless a company does something its leaders don't like. This is one of those instances, so they have played the old, worn out, boycott card.

Here's an excerpt from an essay about it from 365Gay.com:

The AFA’s big beef with McDonald’s is that the company donated to the gay chamber of commerce. Surf over to the AFA Web site and you’ll read that the group is concerned “about McDonald’s, as a corporation, refusing to remain neutral in the culture wars,” the AFA states. “McDonald’s has chosen not to remain neutral but to give the full weight of their corporation to promoting the homosexual agenda, including homosexual marriage.”In short, the AFA is not loving it.

But I’m loving it.

I’m loving this curious development that an iconic American company is standing firm against the oh-so un-American American Family Association, which at every right turn stands against justice and equality.

I’m loving that McDonald’s USA spokesman Bill Whitman defended the restaurant’s policy in the Washington Post proclaiming, “Hatred has no place in our culture. That includes McDonald’s, and we stand by and support our people to live and work in a society free of discrimination and harassment.”

Out of respect for this honorable approach, I'll try really hard not to get upset the next time one of their stores screws up my order.

Click here to read the rest of the 365Gay.com article.

Link of the Day: 42

http://42.blogs.warnock.me.uk/

This is a blog written by Dave Warnock, a Methodist minister in the U. K. He writes on experiences at his church, but also covers computer and web topics and cycling, a passion of his.

Recently, there has been a lot of discussion on this blog about the revival in Lakeland, Florida led by evangelist Todd Bentley as people still continue to have two minds about what, if anything, the Holy Spirit is doing down there.

There are plenty of interesting topics on this blog and worth checking out.