If Dear Abby Says It's OK, Then It Must Be

From The Advocate:

For years rumblings have surfaced on the Internet, conjecture about her casual references to ''sexual orientation'' and ''respect.''

Now Dear Abby is ready to say it flatly: She supports same-sex marriage.

''I believe if two people want to commit to each other, God bless 'em,'' the syndicated advice columnist told the Associated Press. ''That is the highest form of commitment, for heaven's sake.''
What Jeanne Phillips, a.k.a. Abigail Van Buren, finds offensive and misguided are homophobic jokes, phrases like ''That's so gay,'' and parents who reject or try to reform their children when they come out of the closet.

Her views are the reason she's being honored this week by Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, a national advocacy group that provides support for gay people and their families. The original Abby, Phillips's 89-year-old mother, Pauline, helped put PFLAG on the map in 1984 when she first referred a distraught parent to the organization.

Jeanne Phillips, who formally took over the column when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease five years ago, has continued plugging the group, as well as its affiliate for parents with children who identify as transgender, and a suicide hotline aimed at gay teenagers.

''I'm trying to tell kids if they are gay, it's OK to be gay. I've tried to tell families if they have a gay family member to accept them and love them as they always have,'' she said Friday.

If you're going to solicit advice from someone, a person who is accepting of EVERYONE is a pretty good choice. Kudos to Dear Abby and congratulations on receiving PFLAG's first "Straight For Equality" award.